I know what kind of SM I WANT to be...and USED to be...but how do I get back?
(Long, long, long emotional, hormone-laden blog about my recent thoughts on step parenting...I certainly welcome any of your thoughts/encouragement.)
This just set women back 100 years!
Most of you who have read my blogs know my DH's beliefs & attitude, especially given the most recent blogs I've posted. This morning's insight on his part just set women back 100 years - just when I think I've heard it all, out pops another little gem.
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The Skid just put the last nail in his plank. Now he has to walk it.
The Skid passed the drivers test this AM and now has no barriers to going in to the AF. He will be coming home from my parents tomorrow to a packed room and the unequivical message that he goes to basic training NOW if not sooner.
He walked right in to our well planned trap and now we will no longer tolerate 13yo couch potato crap from him.
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Wish I had a normal marriage
Sooo my stepson has hit a new low. I have recently been accused of breaking his toys. Same toys he didn't take care of. I was told that his Christmas presents weren't good enough and he wanted better ones. Mind you he got everything he asked for. Oh and he told his dad and my dad that I choked him. Awesome stuff. I have never stuck my hands on his neck but damn did I want to after he accused me. I am 18 weeks pregnant and he came and told me I was big and fat. Keep in mind it wasn't in a joking teasing way. It was in a down right cruel tone.
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Mediation this week.....Long!
DH met with his lawyer last night for three hours to go over the mediation this week. Apparently the formula for the CS could go between $5.00 a month that she would owe him all the way to $600 a month that he would owe her. How the world does it vary so much? Also, turns out that BM has not provided all the financials and she is supposed to bring them on Thursday. Including the tax returns. They have had ours for months and we still don't have hers. I call BS...
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How do you view them..? There IS no right answer!
Hey there everybody…
Well, once again my DH’s “policy of truth” has landed me in a pickle. Since day one of our relationship, he has insisted (trained me!) that we be bluntly honest about all things concerning our relationship, he sees little half truths or skirting uncomfortable issues as relationship killers. So if he has something on his mind, damn it he’s gonna say it. And he watches me closely for every reply… it’s gotten so that I don’t even try to “just say the polite thing” any more, it just makes him more upset.
Relax
Does anyone have any pointers on meditation? I have disengaged pretty well and it helps a lot. BUT there are times that I really want to explode! And sometimes over very, very small stuff that I KNOW should not bother me. I think we all get to that point sometimes.
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DH had skid#2 picked up for truency
Long story made short DH and I both had to work today and left before the skids went to school. On my way to work I got into a minor fender bender. Someone lightly tapped my truck, no damage aside from my coffee getting spilled all over my clothes, thank god it wasn't scalding hot. After the deputy gets done writing up the paperwork I turn around and head home to change before heading to work. I walk in and there sits skid#2, the 15yo Watching TV. The kid almost had a heartattack when i walked in and tried giving excuses he wasnt feeling good etc etc.
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Need a break!
I can't win for tryin! Was stuck home alone with my ss all day yesterday.Last night when bm bought my sd back home-I hid up in my room while they all hung out in my kitchen. So freaking sick of this shit I could explode! Who's house is this anyway? Why Iam I always made to feel like I do not belong here? To make matters worse-school is closed today! Why can't I make my husband understand how this makes me feel? Without him backing me this will never stop. I hate to say it but everytime something like this happens-I start to resent the skids.
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slandered for years....
its been two years and counting also going on the 2nd child with DH and meeting his family is out of the question..... his fathers side i've meet some relatives but his mothers side they believe im the cause of the on going divorce battle and made up their minds about me. as for his fathers side their are some who have an open mind and some who have made up minds. DH's so called ex has slandered me, she has a big mouth, filled with lies and made up stories worst thing about it is their oldest son16 believes it all too and ignores DH during visitation.
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