We saved 75% of our tax refund this last year to buy Dh a newer used car. I held on to the money until last month when he was ready to make a purchase. In the two weeks he had it until he blew he 800 of the 4000. He bought a car last weekend using the 3 he had left as a down payment.
On Monday bm2s tac refund was finally released to us. We knee it was coming and had discuessed and decided that he would put all that money towards his car loan. He got a more expensive car based on this discussion.
Last night he bought a tablet and a new cell phone online with that money. I'm pissed. All year we don't differntiate which expense is for which kid. So I pay for half his kids food, half thier daycare, I buy all the clothes and toys. But he feels that the child support money is HIS because its for HIS kid?! If that's how he wants it, fine. He can pay ALL his kids expenses all year. I am done being a door mat. Done being a second class citizen in my own home.
This is the last straw in a long line of comments and slights this weekend. Made a snarky comment how I ink take pictures of my kids..... Because I posted one to fb of the baby and none of his kids. Umm, your kids were in school all day. Nevermind the last two weekends I did take and post pictures of all the kids. And he flipped out yesterday because his kids ate expected to wait until Tue little kids are out of Tue car before the get out. Well, they are in the back of the van, and the little kids car seats are in the middle row. Of coarse they wait, otherwise they are climbing over them. Went on a whole rant that his kids won't he treated like second class citizens and told them that they can get out of my car first from now on. Once again undermining my authority.
So this morning after we fought about him spending bill money on stupidness yet again, I packed up MY kids and took the to Busch Gardens today. He woke up as I was clicking the infant into his cat seat... He's pissed and I don't give a fuck.