Well, idiot MIL has ONLY my DH's work phone, which was given to her by her other son and later by my DH. He does NOT want her to have his cell as she will harass him. Of course, we also did not want her to have our home phone, for the same reason.
Unfortunately this weekend, DH and I discussed about going to visit her, ONLY because my grandma (89) wanted to go to that area, so we figured we would go visit the witch since we were going to be close anyway...that way we could go in and out quickly. Anyway, since DH was NOT at work obviously, we though he could use our home phone and he would just tell her he was calling from a neighbor's house or something...again, no need for her to have our home phone, since she can call him during the week at his work and she NEVER does.
SURE AS SHIT...I just received a call "Hi..." very nice sounding and immediately I answered in english, instead of spanish, as that is really my home/work phone...and although I KNEW it would not be someone from work because of the area code, I figured if I didn't like who called, I could tell them it was a wrong number or something...Well, she called twice and the 2nd time when I answered and spoke in english she hung up. IDIOT. I immediately called DH and asked him if he knew that phone number...He said he did, that it was HIS MOTHER and NOT to answer. I told him what happened and he was ticked. Why? Because it's OBVIOUS her intent is NOT to talk to him, as she NEVER calls him and if she really wanted to talk to him, she would have called the phone HE gave her months ago...she was just trying to be nosey to find out if this was indeed a neighbor's phone or ours or who knows. That witch.
It's funny how she is full of shit and pretends like all is fine with her just to get DH to call her, visit, etc...as she knows if she doesn't treat me nice DH will tell her to f#$%ck off and leave us alone. But as soon as she gets a chance, she goes back to her BS ways of trying to find out about us, etc...sigh...
Anyway, it just ticked me off. No big deal. Now I will have ALL their phones blocked just in case and even if I don't, since I don't have an answering machine, she can't get a hold of us here again...but it just ticks me off that she tries to be such a sneaky witch and then pretend she's a saint.
In a nutshell? 1. when DH and
In a nutshell?
1. when DH and I dated, I gave her one of my airline passes to visit HIM/US, she was to pay us back...NEVER DID pay us back, instead of visiting DH/US, she went out and visited the ex-girlfriend
2. when DH and I moved ouf of his house, she sided with crazy BM and SIL in alienating SKID and made our life hell (made up stories with SIL that I would stay home instead of go to work, which was TRUE since I could work from home, but they made him think I was doing it behind his back and seeing someone...NOTHING could be further from the truth)
3. when I got pregnant, her daughter called me and insulted me at 8mos into my pregnancy, at work and SHE SIDED WITH HER daughter, just because she wanted me and DH to break up
4. when my son was born, DH again wanted us to give her passes to see the grandbaby...I was home 2 days after C-section and for a week she did NOTHING in my home, instead stayed INSIDE the bedroom using MY phone (it was MY house) ALL day to talk bad about me, what I had and didn't have for sd, etc...finally made a scene that she was sick and had to go to hospital to get attention, and there was NOTHING wrong with her...(still waiting for her to pay for the tickets)
5. since about 2 mos after I started dating DH, she has made it a mission to talk about his ex's or call me by their names and then act like "it was an innocent mistake"
6. in 13 yrs she has ONLY sent my son 2 bday presents, 1 christmas present although every single year she sends SKID all kinds of stuff
7. while we lived out of the country, she ALWAYS visited DHs sister and BM/SKID...never bothered to call or visit DH or our son
8. she has kept BM in the loop of anything we do/buy, ie. where we live, etc...so that BM can harrass us and ask for more money, etc.
and so many more other things...
OH yes, and she ALSO has PASd my DH for 40 yrs! He never met his father and TO THIS DAY she bad mouths his father in front of ANYONE even if nobody even mentions his name (PS DH is NOW close to his dad)
1. She NEVER ONCE in 40 years celebrated a birthday for her son. Not a card, not a present, not a cake...but does for his 1/2 sister that is the daughter of her now husband, although my DH lived with her ALL HIS childhood.
2. At 13 my DH was running the streets with his loser brother who was 15 at the time, as she would send them "away" to her sister's every summer so she didn't have to deal with them.
3. She never once attended ANY graduation or school function my DH was EVER in, but attended ALL of his 1/2 sister's and big sister's stuff.
4. she used to beat the crap out of my DH when he was little, not for him doing anything horrible, but just because he reminded her too much of his dad (he looks ALOT like him)...she also always beat his brother, same issue, with sticks and all...
She has NEVER been a mother to him, but rather she has done NOTHING for him...EVER. He has worked since he was 13 to support himself, buy his own stuff, everything...while she sat on her ass...
Ah, yes, there you go...just SOME of the reasons.
Who knows...lol I spoke
Who knows...lol I spoke english, she hung up. I didn't call back. DH said he would NOT call her, as that would let her know that she had called our house or at least someone that would have told him. So, DH is not calling. It just ticks me off she is such a two-faced witch.
PS - on a good note, one more reason for DH to see her for what she is...as I have told him for years that SHE is the one going to BM with our stuff and for years he didn't believe me...now he can see how she is trying to find out stuff about us and probably hand it over to BM, as she has ALWAYS done and yet denied to DH.
Not saying that she doesn't
Not saying that she doesn't sound vicious, but what does which language you use mean? What language does she speak?
"Religion is excellent stuff for keeping common people quiet." - Napoleon
I'd rather not say what
I'd rather not say what language she speaks, as I never know if someone could find me with more details...
But basically, she does not speak English, thus the reason I spoke in English...
PS - DH just arrived home and I told him how much it ticked me off...he was so "ok"...So I thought he wasn't getting it and he just said "nope, it's not that I don't get it...I get it...I can't defend her for what she did...I know EXACTLY what she was trying to do and nothing surprises me anymore." I told him it would be hard for me to see her again, as I have so many freaking times been the one to keep my mouth shut when she has constantly made my life hell and then made others, including DH think, that I was making stuff up. He just said "i know, I can't blame you...she brought it upon herself...but no skin off my back...I could really care less at this point...if she likes it, fine, if not, too bad...no problem with me." So, at least he gets it. At least he understands that I have given her way too many chances and that I am truly just fed up and don't care to see her again.