I keep telling BF to take a stand against BM instead of letting her walk all over him ( and me ). I get that he does not like her or want to talk to her but there comes a time to say something. After a few weeks of her sending a ton of toys over with the boys I finally got BF to put it in her stupid notebook NOT to send toys it's too much to keep track of.

She dropped them off this week straight from the fair with a ton of stuff which had I been on it wouldn't have made it in the door. But once again BF dropped the ball and let her send in all this crap including a live fish. For whom we have no tank for. The only thing he did right was Ss4 was crying (cause he probably didn't want to leave the fair) BM wanted the carry him in but BF said no. She asked if he was going to carry him . He said no and made him walk in. BM is not allowed in the house any more because she has no respect for me.

BF and I have been going over his divorce to find out if we can take them to see my family out of state. I noticed that the document does say it has a restraining order saying she can't interfere with his personal liberties. But she has freaked out about me many times and if she does it again I think BF should nail her. Only because it's not the first time.

FYI I have been trying to keep the fish alive just so I can return the stupid thing. Let it die at her house.

And it not just about toys. She doesn't listen at all.