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Crazy SIL on top of everything

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*SIL* R U F'ing kidding me!!! F OFF!!! I can't believe some people, thought they were raised better...I spose NOT!
Yesterday at 4:19pm · Comment ·LikeUnlike
*SIL Friend* Uh oh! Doesn't sound good! Hope everything is ok.
Yesterday at 4:47pm.
*SIL Other Friend* kill 'em with kindness! Smile its what I'm doing!
Yesterday at 5:22pm.
*SIL* Tried that...doesn't work. Now I'll just stoop to their level and play their game...if thats what they want thats what I'll do. Nothing to loose now, that isn't already lost any ways.

*Names have been changed*

This is because DH didn't want SIL to take SD saturday night till sunday evening.
Maybe they're all just crazy. It doesn't sound like things are going to get any better anytime soon. Wow...

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Thetis's picture

Errrggg and its all "They". Just to make me feel included. She's taking SD on Easter for her boyfriend's soon to be one year old son's Bday. Isn't that enough? Fucking hell. I think I'm reproducing with the Adam's Family. I'm going to have to watch out for "play their game...if thats what they want thats what I'll do" THIS ISN'T A FUCKING GAME! THIS IS MY LIFE AND MY FAMILY.
God its not bad enough that I'm ready to leave her brother because he thinks its more important for her to see his daughter then for us to have a holiday together (on top of everything else) but now I have to see this shit on Facebook. WTF she's almost 30 when is she going to grow up?

Thetis's picture

I'm not really talking to Dh right now, but I'm thinking about leaving him a note to let him know she's airing her laundry on FB. She has called me in the past to bitch me out for talking to a friend in a public place about my problems. (One of her friends overheard)
No matter how mad I am at dh this really pisses me off. He's trying his best to ensure everyone gets time with Sd. And who the hell has a birthday party on Easter anyways? I mean its not even the kids actual birthday so what the hell? That would be like picking Christmas for a kid born on the 22nd of December.

DISbelief's picture

How old is SIL?

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ Wink

Thetis's picture

I think she'll be 28 or 29 on her birthday in May. She's 4-5 years older then dh and I.

DISbelief's picture

Well, she is FAR less mature. I can't stand it when people put every little detail about their life on FB. Please.

Just ignore the crazy person, she will go away.

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ Wink

Thetis's picture

Umm thats what I have been trying to do since her shit after the trial. She blamed everything on DH, and then everything she couldn't blame on him was put on me because I should have made SURE he had everything done right. This is a whole lot of crazy and I don't think she's going anywhere.
We seriously sighed a big sigh of relief when she left town but things have gotten worse! Since she doesn't live here anymore she uses her son (two years old) to convince Dh that all his plans have to be dropped when she comes to town because Munchkin HAS to see her cousin. I understand her point, but holy shit, what makes her think we want her toxins in our life? Dh has taken his nephew for dinner with Munchkin before and things like that so they can see each other. He has really bent over backwards to ensure a relationship. (Kills me because its usually at my expense)

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I think there should be a magical spa island for preggo women because I have no idea how this poor baby is going to survive my stress hormones.

I wrote dh a letter, I told him I'm sorry I blew up but I'm not completely responsible either. I also said that his sister is airing stuff on FB, and I am sorry he is going through this after trying so hard to make things fair for everyone. I told him maybe in a day or two we can talk again. I signed it with love. Should I go grab it before he gets home?

I can't stop loving him, and I don't want him to walk on me. I'm living in the basement when he's home from work. He'll probably calm down and talk to me soon.