Yesterday was SD's B Day.

Yesterday about 1.5hr before the end of the work day I get a text from SO. He says that BM kept the kids home from school. He's of course upset. I immediacy knew why she kept them home. SD was complaining to me that her mom is never home on her B Days, so I'm sure she said was whining to BM about it. If BM keeps them home from school, she can still go out that night and not have to listen to SD whine. (BTW...SD says that they didn't go anywhere or do anything :? )

SO tells me that when SD told him she didn't go to school, he asked her if she thought that was the right thing to do. Then proceeded to tell her that she has to make a choice to be like a loser like her mom or make something of herself. SD was on speaker phone and BM heard what SO said. BM grabbed the phone told off SO and I'm guessing they argued a bit. SO says they then proceed to argue via text.

When he was telling me this story, I told him that he and BM both were in the wrong. If BM wants to keep them home, there is nothing he can do and he knows it. If I was BM, I would have taken the phone and told SO, I guess you don't want to talk to your daughter on the her B Day and that would have been the end of the it.

Of course, this pisses him off. He doesn't like when I say he is wrong especially when it comes to his kids. You know, because I don't have any Bio's and that makes me a complete moron when it comes to anything to do with kids. He also said he told SD that she needs to tell her mom she wants to go to school when BM tells them they don't have too.

I told him that no kid is going to argue with their mother that they rather be in school than stay home. (At least not SS or SD)

I said that I feel sorry for SD, she didn't get to have a talk with her dad and had to listen to her parents fight on her B day. SO says he feels sorry for BM's boy toy fiancé. Because he doesn't know what he's getting himself into. At that, I laughed. Boy toy has lived with her since Oct. He has some clue what she's like. SO says that he doesn’t understand what the guy sees in her.

And then I really pissed him off.

Before I left SO a couple of years ago, we fought really bad all the time about BM. I would tell him that he impregnated a loser, why was he surprised that she was a shitty mom. He only knew her for two months before she got pregnant. His response was always (and still is) Well, it was love at first sight. We were just so in love blah blah blah.

So I continued to say that boy toy is probably just so in love with her. It was probably love at first sight. Ha

I usually just nod and say ok when he is complaining about BM since we got back together. I don't want to fight with him about his loser Ex, but yesterday...I don't know, it just came out. Probably because when he was texting me at work all I could think was, great now I have to listen to this crap all the way home.

FF to this morning. SO text me at work again and says that BM is now saying that the kids don't want to come to our house this weekend because they are afraid of him. First time she has used this one. I don't buy it for a second because we are taking them to Disney tomorrow for SD's B Day and she's only been asking to go to Disney for her B Day for 3 yrs.

SO tells BM, Fine have SD call me if she changes her mind...That's all he told me but I'm sure the two of them argued though text for a awhile. Total dysfunction between those two.

So I'm sitting at work with my fingers crossed. I didn't want to go to Disney with SS because he ruins every outing we have, but I was gonna suck it up because SD and SO have been so excited.

Now it's a waiting game.