So, it's been almost two years since loser texted her dad and told him he was a loser, a piece of sh#$%#$5, a f@#$#4ing ahole, blah, blah, blah...He has had ZERO contact with loser since then.

Well, my DH was laid off end of last year, so when he got his new job, he "only" gave his brother his work number. His brother was NOT to share with ANYONE, including DH's parents, etc. because of the constant abuse, harassment and games...what happens?

1. as I posted here, crazy MIL called the day before DH's birthday to tell him that she had cancer...yes, she called the brother and HE gave her the phone number (or so my DH claims, as he swears that he did NOT give anyone else the number and specifically told him not to). A week or so ago DH called his mother to check on her "cancer" and she stated she was going to visit SIL (another witch, who is buddies with BM) the 10th of May. Yes, yesterday.

2. today, DH gets a call at work from his daughter...nice, huh? dialing from "his brother's phone". Nice, huh? No warning. DH was at work and received a call from his brother, but he was with a client and did not answer. So he finally gets off his meeting and the next time his brother calls, it's his daughter on the line :jawdrop:

Now, interesting...let's see the lies that these people tell DH (and I pray DH is telling me the truth). Loser has gone missing in action for a couple of years after she called DH all kinds of names...MIL, the crazy witch she is, has not left the country we live in for around the same amount of time. Now, funny thing, MIL leaves YESTERDAY to that same town, stays with SIL (who is buddies with BM) and DHs brother CLAIMS that "he ran into loser while shopping and she wanted to ask about his mother who had cancer"...WOW! What a freaking coincidence that MIL has been there since yesterday and just TODAY BIL runs into loser skid. Really? Whatever. DH's brother CLAIMS he asked loser if she had talked to her dad and when she said no, he said, then here, CALL him. Really? Sure.

Anyway, here's how it went.

Loser=Hi, I heard that my grandmother had cancer and wanted to see how she was doing
DH=I guess she's ok...I haven't heard much
DH=so, how's YOUR life?
Loser=All is great...
DH=really? by the way, Happy Mother's day...
Loser=Uh huh...
DH=ah yes, remember a few years ago when I told you to be careful and you lied to me and told me that you weren't doing that? and you didn't listen? well, here you are...
Loser=Uh huh...but everything is ok
DH=so, where is the father of your FIRST daughter?
Loser=he lives with me...
DH=really? in your mom's house? that's alot of people for such a small house...
Lower=well, not really, he works so we can get an apt and sometimes he stays there
DH=ah, interesting (of course, he doesn't buy that she even lives there) So, how's school? I guess you didn't listen to me about that either, huh?
All I wanted you to do then and now is to finish your school, but instead you have made a huge mess out of your life.
Loser=well, I am going to take my GED in the next 2 mos
DH=really, where?
Loser=I don't remember the name (sure)
DH=ok, well, I hope for your sake that you straighten up your life and get at least your GED
Loser=hmmm...ok

PS - DH claims she said "say hi to ME and our son"...sure...ok, whatever...

Ah, so here we go...we were just waiting for the darn CS to end in the next few months and I can already feel them before it ends rearing their ugly heads...No, I am NOT angry that my DH had contact with his daughter, heck, DH is actually angry at his brother...ticked off to be exact. I am angry that with all the stress we have put up with from them, we were waiting for this mess/nightmare to be over and it's not yet over, just almost over and they are already appearing...seems like the MIL, SIL, BM, loser and even DH's brother are at it again...

DH was NOT happy. He called me and sounded like he was having a PANIC ATTACK. I was nice and told him to calm down but I was VERY FIRM in that I would NOT tolerate crap from now on. He said he understood and neither would he. He says he feels like his brother just didn't care about how he felt as he was prepared to deal with this AFTER CS ended but not now. As far as I am concerned this is NO COINCIDENCE. AHOLE brother gave mom number with her BS story, MIL went to the states (like she ALWAYS does unless her pathetic daughter comes for mother's day here instead) and the calls started...and someone is really trying to tell us that this is all a freaking coincidence? Really? What a crock!

I am going to keep my calm as I do believe my DH is fed up. I pray that he doesn't back out of his promises. He claims he won't. Time will tell.