Hello all. So I recently was married this month to my husband. He has 2 boys (11 & 16) and I have a daughter (11). I want to get straight to the point. My husband was previously married to his kid's mother, had an on and off relationship that clearly never worked. Since the beginning of my husband and my relationship, I've only met, seen, spoken too (all in-one) once with his ex. My husband has met my daughter's father way more than once (never been an issue). Anyways, it was when she picked up her youngest and the meeting was cordial with few words exchanged that we first met.
My husband is in the Army Reserves and is a full-time student for Aviation Mechanics and is half way through his program and doing exceptionally well. However, he makes very little and has been since he came off active duty, before we met. He filled paperwork to have his child support reduced. He stated it would be temporary until he finished school and found a job, but he still pays his current child support order from his reserve pay.
The mother wrote a letter to DCS stating that he is a deadbeat, which is a lie. He sees his children every other weekend, picks them up, goes to their sports events if there is one, feeds them, clothes them, plays with them, everything a father should do, takes them to church. But recently, she sent him a text bad mouthing him and me. Still calling him a deadbeat then saying that I was a deadbeat too. That I had TWO children, one of whom I had as a teen (which is a boy lol), and that I got rid of both my kids, and said "ask your innocent gf about how she gave away her son as a teen." lol...One) I have NEVER been pregnant as a teen...Two) NEVER had a son...and THREE) Never gave up my one and only child...Then her daughter, who is 21, texts my husband about how he pays for my new car but not his kids...more lies, I pay for my car, he was my co-signer...
I am livid...Oh, and let me not forget, but the day before while his youngest was playing on my husband's phone, she sent a text of a picture of her "empty" bank account statement and her "empty" refrigerator, the child saw this...All the while, when she actually did come and pick her son up that same night, she said NOTHING...Her younger son calls me and says, "I don't know why she is crying. We have lots of food and she just got paid."...And she's a gambler... I've never spoken ill of this woman beforehand, no matter what differences my husband and her have had. I adore both the boys, play with them, they come to me for advice, PICK THEM UP from her house and have done so more than she has picked them up.
Right now, I'd personally liked to smash her face in, but for the sake of my husband and more importantly the kids I won't.