To quote Tony Soprano, "She's dead to me." Thoughts on my MIL...
So as you all know from my previous posts, MIL had told horseface bitch devil cunt (not my dh, no she didn't have the decency to mention this) that "she could NOT take sides in their current custody issue, but that she would be attending evil sink wagons wedding this week." So dh finally dug deep and found where he had buried his balls and layed it all on the line. He informed his mother that they were "done". She no longer had any place in his life or mine, and for the sake of his son, he might try to "allow" her to see him. If she didn't like it, she could go crawl up devil cunt's ass and ask to see ss on her time. Well, I've heard sailors curse less then my mil. And trust me, seeing as I am a Navy brat, that's saying a lot. She called my dh every name in the book and even made a few up. He hung up on her and she continued to call, even though we would not answer, like a raving teenage stalker. She finally corners him on his work line the next day to beg to see ss. Dh, says fine, you can pick him up from Princess Mofo as I will be working. When she arrived, a half hour early, I made her wait outside with the door closed until I had ss bundled up. I then opened the door and sent ss out. I bent down, hugged him and told him to have a good time. Meanwhile this woman is brazenly trying to speak to me. I would not make eye contact or acknowledge her presence. She tried to ask me something and called me "sweetheart" to which I promptly turned and slammed the door in her face. Wow! It felt really, really good. Welcome to disengaging.
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WOW...What made DH finally do
WOW...What made DH finally do this? Doesn't he work for his mom or something like that...?
No. Works with most of his
No. Works with most of his extended family. Ex: Aunts, cousins, Uncles, Horseface bitch devil cunt ex-wife. His mom isn't there, thankfully.
I'd be a little bit careful.
I'd be a little bit careful. Your DH did give in very quickly and let her see SS so his words are a bit louder than his actions at the moment. If he reconciles with his mother she'll forgive him in a shot, but probably hold a permanent grudge against you. By all means don't engage with her, but door slamming while she's in the middle of speaking is probably just going to aggravate the situation and make her feel justified in not supporting you.
Let it aggravate her. I have
Let it aggravate her. I have done everything but jump thru flaming hoops in order to please dh's family and to no avail. She can hold a grudge against me all she wants. I am no longer allowing this woman and her backstabbing ways occupy any more space in my brain.
Well, thanks Lynn. That's
Well, thanks Lynn. That's what I thought too.
There is nothing like a good
There is nothing like a good ol' door slamming.
Thank you! It felt good.
Thank you! It felt good. And like I said earlier, I could give a shit else what that woman thinks of me. I lost the war when she decided to go to bm's wedding this week.