BM, I'm so far ahead of you we're in different timezones...
This is really just a bit of an update regarding my blog last week. http://www.steptalk.org/node/172274 The one in which twat waffle hit dh with a $600+ "medical bill" that she wanted paid to directly to her. SS was here over the weekend. I made some small conversation with him even though I basically disengaged months ago. I asked him what he was going to ask Santa for. He replied, "The flying monkey (bm's husband) and I both want the new Xbox and some games." What floored me was that 'Rising' pointed this out to me in the original blog! I googled the price of this gaming system and lo and behold, it's $499.99 plus tax and the games are $60 and up. Gee, coincidence? I think not. It roughly adds up to $600. I'm glad I dug my heels in and forced dh to contact the hospital directly. Only to find out that indeed, that was not his final bill as insurance was still paying and that "No payments should be made to twat waffle. His payments should be made to the hospital directly." See blog for clarification.
What makes me shake my head though is two things: 1) Dh's blind stupidity. In another time the man would have paid this bill, to horseface, without hesitation. And 2) the brazen entitlement attitude that accompanies that cock-juggling thunder cunt. Her antics make me not only hate her, but in a weird way resent dh for being so spineless for so long... Sorry just a vent.
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I try really hard not to take
I try really hard not to take it personally, as I am convinced it wouldn't matter who dh married she would pull this bullshit. But I can't help but feel enraged because everytime she comes after money, in a way it hurts my bios. She takes money from This family, above and beyond cs. I'm sorry to say but it's forced me to start hiding portions of My own finances from dh in order to secure things for my bios.
I once finally got to my
I once finally got to my breaking point and said to my DH, "If BM says that the sky is blue, you'd BETTER run out and CHECK!"
That got through to him.
She takes money from This
She takes money from This family, above and beyond cs
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Only because your dumb DH lets her.
And I really did LOL at your description of her!! Did DH grow a spine and let her know that he knows she was full of crap?
Willow, if he actually had a
Willow, if he actually had a set of balls and called her out on her bs I would run to the tv and turn on the Weather Channel to see, if indeed, Hell just froze over. He won't. Which baffles my ever-loving mind! I call a spade a spade. I don't mince words. I spent too many years just being a polite doormat. I guess it's really HIS fight but he's going to continue to deal with this at every turn. Thunder cunt is a bully. In the most genuine sense of the word. She's a bully at work and people have left the company over her antics. DH's attorney during our custody drama threatened that he would sue not only her but the company because she harasses dh at work. But like all bullies she is a coward at heart. If somebody would just STAND UP to her she would evaporate like a dementor to a patronus. Sorry, a little Harry Potter humor there.
LMAO!!! Sorry, but the $600
LMAO!!!
Sorry, but the $600 coincidence is so lame.
I think that's happening to DH, except he's not paying a dime until the medical bills are presented.
BM sent an email last week telling him he owes her over $1000, possibly $2000, for medical bills that exceeded her medical coverage for this year. Since they are supposed to split those kinds of costs, that means the kids had up to $4000 of UNCOVERED medical treatment in the past 11 months? Yeah right. Guess what else she is doing right now? Trying to come up with earnest money for buying a house (info courtesy of MIL)
When my DH was briefly
When my DH was briefly unemployed, we had to buy a different, high-deductible medical insurance policy for the skids. He let BM know and also asked her to postpone any non-emergency visits for two months until the new (better) insurance kicked in.
In those two months, BM managed to use up the ENTIRE $5000 deductible on the skids! And every single visit was for a non-emergency visit. Including some things she wanted 2nd and 3rd opinions on!
ugh. Was she trying to
ugh. Was she trying to sabotage you or is she just an idiot hypochondriac with borderline munchausen by proxy tendencies like the BM I deal with?
Ha! Yeah, all skid bills
Ha! Yeah, all skid bills have her name on them so *IF* that figure is correct, and I highly doubt it, she's the one who will have to deal with the consequences of unpaid bills.
Her medical coverage is weird, I don't really understand how it works but she pays into a healthcare account that gets depleted when her and the kids need it. She is going to have to prove 1. How much she put in the account to begin with 2. How much was used on her 3. The exact amount used by the kids. Then she will have to subtract the amount used on her. Also, he accidentally overpaid CS this year by $500. She will have to subtract that too.
So basically we are ignoring her. If it's legit, she can take him to court over it. Which won't happen. She always threatens legal action as if it will make him bend to her will and then admits she doesn't have money for a lawyer. Reality: she doesn't ever have a case against him. No one in their right mind would want to touch her.
Cake! Love it! Thanks,
Cake! Love it! Thanks, Rising. After ss told me what he wanted all I could think of was your comment. It made total sense.