So a few weeks ago we (dh, me and bm) agreed that while SS was with her she would have him call the weekend he was not with us. we get him EOW. Normally we talk on a Tuesday evening (right after her weekend) This is what she wanted, during the week; we wanted it on a Sunday. But we agreed with her. She kept up her end and had him call and we would talk to him about school and stuff going on with him. Well I emailed BM on monday to see how ss was doing and that I was thinking about him, she responded that evening saying he was good, school was good and she would let him know that I emailed. Well he didnt call Tuesday night. I am thinking she thought by us talking via email that was enough. Is talking on the phone one time during the 2 weeks he is there to much?? Should I call (dh works 2nd) if ss does not? BM knows that dh works 2nd and she doesnt mind me talking to him but i still feel anxious when i call over there or think about calling over there. whats the phone call "rules"??