BM shouldn't have a child!!!!!! She is worthless!
Well I have figured out why SD13 has no physical boundaries!.. This past Sunday BM called and needed a ride from the hotel they are staying in to the house she is cleaning for them to rent and live in... So we agree.. We get to the hotel and SD13, BM and BMs new boyfriend all come out. She doesn't have a car and her boyfriend doesn't have one.. Anyway, we ran by Lowes so they could get some paint and dropped off BM & her boyfriend at the house.. SO and I took SD13 to the mall to kill some time.. We got her a new book bag for school. Then we went to eat. While we are eating she is telling us about the hotel stay.. She told us the air went out so they changed rooms, then the tv didn't work.. Then at bedtime her BM and BMs new boyfriend argued over who was sleeping in the middle of the bed!!.. WTF!!! BM just met this guy Memorial Weekend and we have had SD13 since memorial weekend until she went back to BM this past Friday.. So the boyfriend just met SD13!.. First this man shouldn't have wanted to be in the bed with a 13 year old little girl... But the stupid BM should not had put her 13 year old daughter in a bed with a man she barely knows!! I thought SO was going to have a stroke.. But he said nothing to BM!. I was beyond pissed off!. I am just in shock that he didn't say anything to BM! They all need therapy! SO had to fly back to California for work so I am just waiting for his flight to get in so we can discuss this issue. He needs to man up! I wanted to cussed out BM and tell her what a worthless pos she is!..
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That has been talked about!..
That has been talked about!.. I have a few family members that work for DSS in the county BM lives in.. What kind of woman would put her child in this position!! When I was single, I never even let a man know where I lived, much less let him sleep in a bed with my daughter!. And what kind of man would think it's ok to sleep in a bed with a 13 year old child!!! The BM thinking this is ok is just freaking crazy!! Something has to be done before SD13 is hurt.. This isn't healthy and it opened my eyes to why she has no physical boundaries with SO... I guess if it ok to sleep in a bed with mommy a boyfriend then it's ok to hold daddy's hand and sit on daddy's lap as long as I want and hang on daddy in public!.. When SD gets a boyfriend she is going to think all of this behavior is ok! She will think it's right to hang all over "little Johnny", sit on his lap and sleep in "little Johnny's"bedroom because BM has shown her it's aloud and SO doesn't do anything about it!.. Just so pissed off! She needs a safe stable life.. I don't want full custody but I would feel better knowing she was safe every night!
Wtf? Why is there even
Wtf? Why is there even discussion of the three of them sharing a bed? Have the hotel bring in a cot for sd if they can't afford a room with two beds. I'm just going to act like living in what sounds like a flea bag hotel is normal and not even go there. :jawdrop:
It was actually a Holiday Inn
It was actually a Holiday Inn Express, I was shocked it was so bad.. But. To the major issue.. I agree that they shouldn't have had to argue of who's sleeping in the middle between BM and her new boyfriend.. BM should not put her daughter in a bed with a grown man!! And what type of grown man feels comfortable with his new girlfriends teenage daughter being in bed with him!!! BM could have, should have handled the situation like a real parent!.
I think we know what kind of
I think we know what kind of a grown man would be comfortable with this situation. It is not unheard of for a man to start a relationship with a woman in order to get close to her daughter.
I am shocked your DH didn't take some kind of action when he found out about this. I wonder what kind of sleeping arrangements will there be in the new house?
Yes a man that should be in
Yes a man that should be in prison! I have thought about sleeping arrangements because SD likes to sleep with BM.. I have thought about this new guy and the past 10-15 guys BM has lived with.. Because SD didn't think there was anything wrong with the three of them sharing a bed.. I didn't & still don't understand why he didn't flip out, because I was so mad I was shaking!. If it would've been my child she would've gotten back out I the truck and I would have called child protective services!!
Sorry you are going through
Sorry you are going through this. I would have responded like you did - including the shaking!