Really getting irritated every time she calls we hand over money....
I am really getting irritated that every time BM calls we are sending the kids home with money for this and for that. I don’t get it. SS10 just had eyes checked and we spent $500. on glasses 6 months ago. Why is he having another one done and why do we have to pay for it. He is 10 he is too young for contacts. If you want him to have contacts then YOU pay for it!!! When do these BM start taking responsibility for their kids. They are not a paycheck! Just cus you spread your legs and carried them for 9 months does not mean BD is forever in debt to you!!! This is really pissing me off. You keep bitching about taking him back to court for more money we are paying for everything in your home NOW!!! Why don’t you get off your lazy ass and get a job!! Hell no, you’re not going to do that because then you will not get as much money for your little brats! I just want to SCREAM!!
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Two vision appointments in 6
Two vision appointments in 6 months? That is definitely excessive. If it's for cosmetic vision correction I wouldn't pay it. I doubt your CO would state you need to pay whenever BM decides that her children need more fashionable eyewear. Don't pay it and make the optometrist harass BM until she realizes you aren't going to give in. Also, NEVER give money directly to her. I always have DH call the dr. directly to get the bill and pay his half to them.
"NEVER give money directly to
"NEVER give money directly to her"
Agreed!! NEVER!!!!!!
Yeah, we learned the hard way
Yeah, we learned the hard way on that crap. BM#1 would go one step farther though and actually have SD13 call and ask for $50 for gymnastics, or $50 for basketball sneakers, or some other made up crap and BM was the one taking the money, we would find out when DH would ask SD about "gymnastics" or "basketball" and she would tell us that she never went.
It's just so much more ridiculous when these scumbags actually employee their children in their litte money grubbing games.
As a BM myself I make my ex
As a BM myself I make my ex pay directly to whomever we owe so he can have a reciept only thing I accept cash for is our sons latchkey and I make sure he gets a reciept for that to. I tell my SO the same with his ex never give her cash. Our states law is if cs doesn't go through them its a gift not support. 2 vision appointments in less than a year unless its an emergency or follow up is excessive my eyes suck I go yearly that's it my kids eyes are more like their dads they go every 2 years unless there's a problem. Is it court ordered to pay all their vision dental medical? 500$ is a lot if your not supposed to pay all of it. Never give cash pay the bill directly do not give more than your supposed to unless it is a "gift".