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I never had a blog before but then I have never been a Step Mother before either.
Every day it seems, there is some new issue or stress. I need an outlet.
All responses are welcome but I ask you to keep in mind that some days I don't do so well and can be pretty sad and sensitive.
I don't want to start at the beginning - I might have time/energy one day but not today so I will just start with today and what is going on.
Having a kid arrested as a criminal then praising that POS kid as "tough"? :? Having a nearly adult kid be a whining manipulative punk then getting parental praise as cute? :? etc....
If I had ever been arrested my parents would have kicked my ass then talked to me about it later. Hell if they ever got a note home from a teacher about my behavior they would have kicked my ass first then talked to me about it later.
If anyone would like to share I am curious about how the parenting time is split for others . . .
I guess it would be relevant to know if you are with the CP, NCP, or JC parent.
Thanks for any replies!
i just read something that said how irritated they are that the skids are coming for their scheduled visit. i understand how annoying it is having them invade my house - do you think they get annoyed being at our house too?? Is it a choice to come visit the other parent or are they being forced too?
My DH loves having his boys visit - i dont share the enthusiasm....i'm just wondering if they sit at bm's going oh god we have to go see dakota again....
Well, last week when I was going through a bunch of crap the adult Skids were laying on me I thought of something funny and wrote it down on a scrap of paper in the bathroom (that's were it popped into my head)and yesterday evening my husband acted like he just found this scrap of paper, came out into the kitchen and asked me what it was all about. So, I told him I had written down last week when his adult Skids were treating me like crap (like they've changed any?)and he asked me what was written on that paper (as though he couldn't read) so I told him, "I thought Warner Bros.
Wow. Where do I even start!! I been with my husband for almost 3 years, married for 3 months. Everyone told me things would get harder after we got married, this is so true. Let me just give you a few examples: REHEARSAL DINNER NIGHT: Fiance drove with his daughter to OUR rehearsal dinner, leaving me and my daughter behind to drive iwth family. Apparently he brought the pourche and didnt have room for all of us. so they went and we had to meet them there. 2.
After lots of arguing with DH about ss11 and he needs counseling and we need parenting classes...I resorted to calling local PD for parent assistance lines after SS11 threatened to kill his teachers baby, and told another student he had a samuri knife ( Not) that he was going to bring to school- what is ss11 thinking.??????????
Yesterday he told another kids to "go suck his mothers boobs" I promptly got a call from the school to come and get him ( He is already serving 4 days detention as it is).
As the skid weekend rapidly approaches, I'm starting to realize just how irritating the fixed skid weekend really is. My husband and I work all week, then we have to follow another "schedule" for every other weekend going out to MIL's. I'm getting really iritated by having to go out there, no matter what else we may have going on. Beyond the work that we do during the week, we also always have work to do on the weekend as well. So, we need to get up drive the hour to MIL's, then drive the hour back to town, then work until 8,9,10 at night in order to get the things done that we need to.
My last blog was a disgrace to my iPhone posting capabilities. lol lots of typos...sorry but I was running from work to the supermarket to get a cake and card for SD7 bday celebration dinner that DH simply could not do - again for HIS daughters. I was also stuck with the responsibility for SD11 dinner celebration.
I feel horrible saying this but I am dreading my fiance's son coming over today. The reason why I feel bad is b/c he's only four. I always thought I was jealous of him and maybe that's why I hate when he comes around but my fiance still has a relationship with his ex's other son (not his biological child) and I think he is an awesome kid!! We've been together for almost two years now and I still haven't warmed up to him. He just isn't a lovable kid to me. I think what annoys me most is that he is kind of a rude kid. I have always instilled manner in my kids b/c it's important to me.
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