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Why do MIL, BM & DH keep believing bratass,snotty and crybaby SD, who will be 16, is the victim. I have recently told my MIL that I will not do anything for SD. I am so glad that she was not given a choice to come back to IL, she is now in FL with BM. I just cannot stand her or the sight of her. She blames me of course for her being in FL and messing up her whole life. DH and I have been together since she was 2. She lived with us for the last 3 years, and they were hell. I don't trust her and will not leave mine and DH's bio kids with her.
hubby and i have been fightin every other weekend w step kid. 7 yr old. and i have 2 year old and baby on the way due this april.
i told him. i want 3 seperate beds. and he said you are retarded they are sisters. I said, i grew up sepereate my family does and yours when your mom is very poor. and cannot afford a bed.
So SS and BS have a pop tart for breakfast... granted not the most nutritious but it's organic pop tarts so at least they are without the horrible ingredients in the regular ones. Well, I had to take them to school a bit early and a pop tart isn't much so I handed them each a banana. I go to throw something away a little while later right before taking them to school and find two bananas in the trash... one is only missing a couple bites. The other is maybe 3/4 eaten.
The way DH and I have worked it is that instead of me and DH running around trying to get 400 different people presents for x-mas, he pretty much takes care of his side, and I pretty much take care of mine. He gets daughter, siblings, nieces and nephews, and father all something on his own. I get my mother's SO, my sister, cousin and cousin's two kids all something on my own. We usually both get a little something extra for each other's mother's as well as by ourselves. We just put both of our names on all of the presents.
BF and I have been looking to move into a bigger place.
ss17 is dating a 14 year old girl. i found online by searching that this is illegal. Do i tell Dh and hope he has a conversation with ss or do i just backoff and let him deal with everything concerning his kids?
Yesterday I stepped up our eating requirements a bit more. I served dinner at the actual dinner table (shock!) and we all three sat down together. I made mexican and gave SS5 a cheese rollup with a paper thin shmear of beans. He's never tried beans before (as much as I know).
My husband has been at this job for 2 years. He works for a town and through his job became friends with one of the council members- a woman. It has grown to the point that he goes to her house for lunch, he stops her house at times for coffee before work, I know they talk continually throughout the day, she has texted him on weekends. And now they were texting back and forth last night. She is a widow, but she is on vacation right now with her family! He said she was texting him about what they were doing. Why should he care?????
Come to the realization that I'm never going to like skid or idea of skid. For all of you out there who actually do, that's great that you are fortunate enough to feel that way. I wish I could, but I just can't find it in myself to.
Ok, major issues with SS 20 - found out this summer he was a herion addict he has been through rehab and other mental health programs since back in October he was diagnosed as being bi-bolar. I used to have a close relationship with SS20 until I realized he was using me for money to buy drugs. I do love him but ever time he is around me my husband and I get into a huge fight. I dont trust SS20 as far as I could throw him and may never trust him again.
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