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So dh got over the shower thing. We eat dinner and all is fine. Out of NOWHERE, dh yells (in front of ss) "Where is ss pic he drew last time?" (last time ss and dd were drawing pics on notecards. No big deal but I threw them away. All of them.) My reply was to play dumb and I was thinking, 'oops'. So apparently ss noticed they weren't on the fridge and told his daddy. Dh hadn't even noticed. Well dh threw a MAJOR fit about it- RIGHT IN FRONT OF SS!!! He has NEVER done that before!! I got so mad. He was basically saying I threw them away on purpose because I don't like ss.
It seems like a crazy situation that will not go away. Stepson living at home who is overprotected by his micro-managing mother(my spouse). The stepson is 24 hrs old with a minimum wage job and a car.
So SS is being extremely mouthy tonight which is so not like him. We decided to go out to dinner, had him pick the place, were sitting there talking and trying to include him in the convo bc he was just sitting there looking angry. Then my DH makes a joke about how bc of the snow he us never in school and he us going to send him to an all summer school and with the mist serious angry evil face he depots with, I' m afraid that's not your decision to make, it's moms and she wouldnt do that.
REally not as bad as it sounds. It was the first time I'd been out of the house since Wednesday, due to the weather, so a skid ball tournament didn't sound so bad... We got there late, so we had to sit in the middle, between the home and away teams. Not too bad; more space. When I stood back up to take off my coat, I did a quick look around. Since it was an afternoon game, I was pretty sure Loca Grande would be there. She was. I have not been on speaking terms with her for two weeks due to her part in Princess's most recent lies...
Or just a WARM one for that matter? This may not seem like a big deal to some of you, but I'm so frustrated right now. So for me, my shower is a precious thing. I have 3 kids an always have one around it seems. I can't just leave them unattended so I can only sneak one in when dh is here and I can usually only squeeze a quick one in. On the weekends I usually try to get a long one in and it's usually my only time to relax, unwind...you moms know how it is.
I HAVE AN 8 YEAR OLD STEPSON, ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS. I DO NOT FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN TREATED AS A MOM. EVERYBODY IS ASKING ME TO BE A MOM FOR MY STEPSON BUT THEY ONLY LET ME DO THE DIRTY WORK. STUDY WITH HIM PLAYING WITH HIM WASH HIS CLOTHES FEED HIM MAKE HIS LUNCH CLEAN UP HIS ROOM....! IMPORTANT STUFF?I GET THE " STAY OUT OF IT OR MIND YOUR BUSINESS" I AM NOT ONLY HAVE TO DEAL WITH A DRUG ADDICT MOTHER I HAVE TO DEAL WITH AN OVER PROTECTIVE FATHER-IN-LAW ALSO.
His child causes trouble but me and him are the ones that need counselling!!!! I could of just slapped him sideways!!!
I declare-
Your kid decides to wash her muddy trainers by the baby's bottles at the kitchen sink
Your kid takes the lid of the babies medicine and moves the box so I know its been done on purpose
Your kid threatens my (our) baby but I'm the enemy
Your kid says you will never pick anyone over her (in our faces)
Your kid lies about me
Your kids have no manners and don't wash everyday
I am new to this but i need somewhere to vent. So here goes. I am into a new marriage, but we have been together for five years. Along with the marriage has come two SD's age 12 and 14. I also have a 5 year old son. Two months ago the 14 year old came to live with us, in the start it was ok until she started pulling the everytime she doesn't get her way she wants to go back and live with her mom. So my husband gives in and she gets her way. I am at my breaking point. Also the birth mother and her family are not helping. All they do is bad mouth me and my son and husband.
My 10 BD is getting baptised tommorow at the church that I used to go to in the town that I used to live and her grandma and grandpa attend and are very involved. We are talking a church that may have an average attendance of 25 at the most. A very small church to say the least.She asked me to come earlier this week.They decided that they did not wan to come to our house this weekend cause they just didnt want to. Thats a whole other issue. My thing is that I am not comfortable going to her baptism at all. I know I should go for my daughter but I just can't make myself go.
Okay, in our old house all three kids had thier own bedrooms. Here they do not. We only have three. So my bd and my sd share a room. The rooms are all pretty small. The only thing my bd has in the shared room is a bed. All of her cloths are in a dresser in my room and all of her toys are in the second living room downstairs which I dubbed as the toy room. There is also a sofa and T.V in this room. Here's the prob. Most of the time I have to keep my bd out of my skids rooms cause they don't want her in there(they both have video game systems in each room).
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