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OMG! a place to vent!
YAY! why didnt i think of this earlier!
well i am insane. i have completly lost the plot.
I have two boys 3 and 5 and my fiance has 3 boys, 7, 15 and 16.
they were all living with us however the 7 yr old has gone back to his mothers (thank god!)
i am having serious issues with EVERYTHING! i am feeling so overwhelmed with the whole blended family bizo. i dont know how to handle anything.
The past two days have been AMAZING!! Not sure what happened but since I posted last my house has felt like home, with everybody here!! Love it! My DH started a new shift at a new job overnight so he is here; just getting up when the skids gets home from school. He use to get home about 6-7 PM when kids are hungry and Mommys' going crazy cause shes had kids up her ass for 4 hrs. plus the 1 yr. old all day. Maybe thats been a big help. I actually got to relax and play around with the kids this evening! I have a date tomorrow eve with my SD for her Birthday.
So this past Sunday, DH sat me down to have a talk. He was tired of the fighting, and he wanted to figure things out. He wanted to know what he could do to make things right. We talked for awhile when I finally just said that I couldn't take it anymore. He had taken everything away from me in the last month. The one thing that I had always wanted - a family. He took that away from me. I told him a story - about when I had decided to give up a dream that I had had for so long for another dream.
So the FSkids got dropped off last night at a friend's house so the abode was peaceful. Today started ok - frozen, but ok.
Lazy boye was in the kitchen this evening, pestering me about using my computer, and just being a pain. being snowed in for 4 days will do that to a skid... I put him to work, emptying the dishwasher, and we were talking about him finishing up his laundry. Nothing major. He starts to rip into a bag of marshmallows, and I fuss on him not to eat them since they are for rice crispie treats tomorrow.
Loghead turns to me, and says "I must see you in the bedroom now!"
I'm like, "WTF?!"
Still bad enough that all of our schools are cancelled again tomorrow. I'm getting lots done- cleaned two closets; under a bed. One big bag of trash. 2 bags for Goodwill. Skyped with my momma, who's in Florida on business. Graded papers, helped Gibby with homework. Monopoly, yahtzee. 3 day into South Beach "detox" phase. Easy to do, when I can't get to the store and get my favs anyway...
My SD ( almost 13 ) has lived with her dad & I ( SM ) since age 9 when her BM lost custody of her ...she has not seen her BM in 4 years since she lives 1,000 miles away...SD hates her BM & see's me as mom...However even though her BM was very neglectful & abusive...she also gave my SD anything she wanted, babied her, never punished her, taught her how to steal, lie.....lately SD is like 2 people one side says she wants a mom whose involved, strict, there 24/7....BUT then she gets angry & blows up because she can't eat junk food 24/7, stay up late, wear anything, have a a ce
There is a long history of disrespect regarding my stepdaughter. She is 30 yrs old, married and has children. I have blogged about her skipping my mother's funeral because "she was ignored" on the night my mother died, starting a fight with me while my DH(her Dad)was in the hospital after cancer surgery, telling MIL lies to start drama, and just a general disrespect of her father in general. She has a bad attitude towards her mother but Momma takes it because she is afraid she won't see the grandkids if she opens her mouth.
So since BM asked SO for some money for a BDay party SHE planned for SD, this has been a touch subject for SO and I considering he has not freakin balls when it comes to "The Golden Uterus" aka BM. So, I typed up this letter in "hopes" perhaps he could retrieve his balls that the BM took and kinda set her straight in a not so mean and negative way. Anyway...I have not heard back from SO about the letter. I did NOT send the letter, I am hoping he will or at least stick up for himself.
BM,
There's been some pretty crappy weather here past few days and we've been "lucky enough" to have 3 whole snow days from school. It hasn't been bad at all even concidering SS14 is MOST CERTAINLY under punishment for his latest stunts.Which is EXACTLTY why the absent minded piss poor xcuse 4 a mom or woman,BM,decided to 1st of all call the police to our house for a "wellness" check on her BS14 due to his actions being brought to light.Nothing became of it and the police would not take OUR report,for harrassment or her making a false report,blah blah....