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I'm really just pissed off and feel the need to vent on here. Even if there is no responses I feel better getting it out. SS9 is 40 pounds over weight. According to a doctor if he was of average size as an adult and this trend continued he would currently weight 296 pounds. Out of the 4 parents (BM/BF/SM/SF) I'm the only one who does any research on his food consumption (Binging and hoarding), as well as his Aspergers. Everyone else just lives in Lala land about everything.
I haven't been on the site much because the skids haven't really been bothering me all that much. Their weirdo mom is still an issue, but that will always be the case. Luckily for us, she moved 10 hours away.
And here it is. Parents need to teach their children these things. Sadly they aren't and especially not today's permissive parent when in the case of the "non intact" family.
http://www.drdaveanddee.com/manners1.html
it's ss15-now ss16's bday today. i didnt get him anything nor do i plan on it. he has been a little ass to me since christmas. is it wrong to not acknowledge the little turd? just doing the same as was shown to me on my bday 
Is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
Sadly, same can be said for me. I complain about the way DH and BM handle issues with their children, and I blow up, but I never really do anything about it.
I write earlier in the week about SD16 lying about her whereabouts, and how I had to take off work and try to find out where she was at. Since then, STILL nothing has been done or any punishment given - not once have they discussed with her anything about her actions, that lying is wrong, etc. Just sweep it under the rug.
While doing my walking at the local school district. Apparently the 4th grade class had an assignment on writing an essay about a family member. FAV family member, that is. Of course there were NO I love my stepmom essays. That goes without saying. But one in particular caught my eye.
Here is the synopsis:
I Love My Dad
That's right, my summer. MY CHILDREN'S summer. No one will be coming to my house this summer and making us all miserable. SS has been living with his mom for 6 months. He is now a smoker, drinker, and pot head. After being absent from his life for 5 years ss's mother repays him by being his bff. There is no way he is coming to my home with his new habits. I told DH he can see him whenever he wants just not at our house. Luckily, he understands and is all to familiar with his son's antics. I just don't want this kid in my life ever. I don't want him around my younger children.
Yep I am anticipating our BM being a useless bum again.
We had to pay to send SD to BM over the christmas holiday. Also to make it worse BM jerked us around to the point we had to purchase the tickets last minute to the tune of several thousand dollars. Granted I don't want to do that again this summer, but damn I need a break from SD. I can't do this all summer with no school. Would it be evil to send her to summer school if her mom doesn't take her? She could use the extra help.
So, it's been almost 14 weeks since SD has been here. She's decided that she wants to come tomorrow night. I am really not happy about that. At least I know all I have to do is look at her the wrong way and she'll be gone again for 13 more weeks. I am going out tomorrow night with my kids and plan to keep them away on Saturday too, I hate for them to witness how she acts. Wish me luck 
I don't have to blog anymore thank you all for being there when I needed someone to talk too. I made a decision I told my Ex-finace to move out and never leave his children for me or anyone else. I told him he needed to get his life together with his children. I took Ya'll advice; you guys were right there is no need for him to leave his children for me, I a grown women and his children are just starting out, they need him more right now. Thank You all and may God Bless You! It's a tough postion being a step-mom and my hat off out to all of you.
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