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Ok, I just need a reality check. This happens occationally and it always makes me uncomfortable. Let me know what you all think.
If SD13 is sick and taking medication (both OTC and prescription) BM just gives them to SD and says nothing to DH. He usually has no idea what if anything she is taking.
This has been going on for years, since maybe age 8.
BM just cant seem to keep her mouth shut. She always has to throw me in the mix even when they are having a conversation that does not pertain to me in the slightest.My boyfriend said she feels very threatened by me. I dont like this woman and Im getting sick and tired of her taking cheap shots at me. I do more for her daughter than she does. One would think that she would appriciate that I do so much and try so hard. I think the only thing she should be concerned with is that I treat her daughter good. I cant help but to feel she is trying to f@#* with me.
Let me just say that Ss used to have nightmares and night terrors when we first got him. But they became very infrequent after several months. We had a appointment with the psychiatrist who changed the dosages because the medication was not helping Ss as much as it should have. Ss also got a good talking to about him drinking while taking these medications. He has yet to show any guilt for this but that is another matter.
Oh, I’ve missed StepTalk. I haven’t had time to post lately. Here’s a re-cap before I vent – SD6 is not DH’s daughter but we still taking her every other week Sunday through Friday. SS4 is with us Sunday-Sunday, while SD6 goes to her biodad’s that weekend.
We bought SD6 a cute fuzzy unicorn hat a few weeks ago. She loved it. (Of course, the reason behind NEEDING to buy her a hat is because BM neglects to send one with her on our weeks, and won’t cooperate to drop one off/pick it up).
I just found this site. I'm not sure where to start. I have no children of my own, and don't plan to. I'm very frustrated with my SO and my SD5. My SO and BM don't get along, and BM uses SD to manipulate SO. He lets SD do whatever she wants in the house, and out in public, because he's so scared of losing her to BM that he wants to be her best friend. Of course, BM has a new SO and so of the four of us, I'm the only person even remotely interested in disciplining SD so that she becomes a semi decent person as she grows older. She's also an only child.
So I finally got to see the SK this weekend. This is the first time since BM found out that we are having a baby... They still cannot spend the night but I was able to go to the movies and they were able to go to Mom-n-laws for our usual Sunday breakfast. Well we finished breakfast and got kitchen cleaned up and I asked what was on their Christmas lists this year so the youngest came in and was going over the things she wanted. Lol so when she was finished Mom-n-law asked her how she felt about having a new baby sister, and she just shrugged her shoulders...
I come from a divorced family and it makes the holidays terrible for me! I am almost 30 years old and I still get treated terribly by my mother if I even mention my father and his family in a sentence.
Holidays are the worst. This year we had mentioned going to my fathers side thankssgiving becasue my grandmother is sick and it could possibly be her last.
Imagine my utter shock when I walked into the grade school the other day and BM was working there in the lunch room. Shocked she has a job and shocked the school hires criminals. Seriously, do they not do background checks?
I guess she can't do much harm collecting dirty lunch trays and washing them. Even as a seasoned shoplifter, I doubt she can steal those institutional sized cans of pears or cases of little tiny cartons of milk. Thankfully, the kids have lunch accounts and don't use cash.
This past weekend my DS11 had his birthday party at a fun venue. Since his dad (my ex) was the parent in charge this year and it wasn't really age appropriate for SD7, she wasn't invited. Because my son was otherwise engaged overnight Saturday, my DD15 and I went away to a concert. We couldn't invite SO because, of course, he has SD every.single.weekend.
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