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Mini daddy & spoiled turd

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Got the skids back this morning. Youngest one looks so sad and depressed any time I try to speak to him. Other one is fine. So I take them with me to rub some errands DH can sleep a little since works nights. The pout continues on with the youngest (oh well I tried)... So we are almost home and I ask did your mom feed you breakfast this morning and they say no. I said really? And you have said in hungry yet? And they say They aren't hungry .. Usually within 10 min they r saying can we have food they didn't feed us .. So we get home and they go wake their dad and their little brother up..

Here we are on Christmas Eve.. Having a spat

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Over bs and SS...

Bs3 threw something at ss9 .. SS brings it to me and then turns around and takes a ball away from bs .. DH & I. say. give it back .. He doesn't and gets attitude with me and refused to give it back ... So I hand BS the other thing back... He hits SS with it again and DH gets mad at me bc I gave him something back that he was hitting ppl with ... So I say SS doesn't get to take both away from bs.. DH sad I told him to give it back .. Yea and he didn't and u didn't say a word .. So now we are mad at each other over the kids .. Again ...

Mini husband

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Ever since I DH & I started dating his oldest who was 5/6 has acted like he has to tell me how to do everything in regards to them. It started as ball practice is here, we wear shorts to this, we have cookies for this.. He's 10 now & it has progressed to him questioning the clothes I lay out for him, he tries to parent the younger kids, he will yell at his brother if he doesn't get up for school when he says, he lectures him on his behavior & grades. He calls our little one baby, like come on baby you want to come watch a movie with me? Like in the parental way of a pet name.

Why argue ..

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BM texts DH wanting to know where one of the kids costs is. He tells her he wore it back to her house. BM goes off on DH about how he doesn't know anything and accusing him of "losing" it on purpose. The kid tells BM tell dad to look in wah wah's car .. Of course it's not in my car bc the kids wore it home 2 weeks ago. Then continues the argument of not letting the kids play ball and going along with the agreement BM & DH made as suggested by the judge.. Noooo BM wants to fight about everything... But what else is new.

Thanks BM for ruining my day

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BM started her crap last night & this morning ..so now he's gonna be a snappy pissy mood... I didn't lose yours kids crap.. Nor did I make an agreement with psycho witch knowing she wouldn't stick by it when it came her turn to do the work ... So now he's in a hateful pouting mood. He wants to go fishing and I said well go me and our little one can stay home while you .. I mean it is 37 degrees here & it's a wet mess outside so no our toddler doesn't need to be out in that ..buy noooo he won't go without us ..

Advice needed

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My SS keeps putting my 3 year old up to saying bad words.. Today he was telling him to says sh!+ bc he was in trouble. I caught him in the act of saying brother say shit.. So I fussed at him & of course it turned into a melt down.

Meet when convenient for BM & her family

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We do pick up/drop offs at school. There's medicine involved so we do the the simple someone drops them off at school and then the next parent picks them up.. Someone has to be there to get the meds. We end up waiting about 30 min on them to show up with the kids bc u never know exactly when they will be there. If someone isn't there they won't wait they will leave and the you have to meet on their terms to get the stuff... BM texts DH tonight and says someone has to be there at a specific time to get the stuff bc she or her hubby has to go to work .. Well that's fine ..

Dad she's punishing BS...

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Bs was saying a word he's not allowed to say .. I called him down. SS was sitting there the entire time doing hw. Bs said it again and I said if u say it again your're in trouble.. So he said it again, testing me, so I go to pop his butt and SS says he didn't actually say the word.. I said I know what he said and I told him what would happen. So as I'm going to get BS the SS pipes up DAAAAAD!!!! TELL HER HE DIDNT SAY THE WORD!!!!

Messy messy messy

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I cleaned house yesterday ..today th steps came back ... I get off work and about 20 min after I get home they get back from ball. Somewhere in this water is all over the bathroom floor, pretty sure oldest didn't get a towel out before getting in the shower.. Youngest gets in and out of the showe, has the shower door open while showering, so there's more water in the floor. Oldest says youngest threw our little ones toy in the toilet. Of course that gets denied... And I just heard daaaaad LO just peed in my floor.. Who knows if he told the LO to do it or not ...

Emotions

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I've tried to play nice with the skids .. The older one is a good kid. The younger one is a diff story. I can't handle him. He has anger issues, he's manipulative, spiteful ... He is his mother. The chicks is driving me crazy. Truth is I'm not around the skids much. I work full time, they have school & they are with in a 50/50 custody situation so truthfully I'm not around them much at all. But it's enough for him to drive me crazy.

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