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Should I feel guilty???

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Long story short, my DH's BD lived with us for about 3 years. It was always stressful with her living with us as it is my DH, myself and our 3 bio-kids in a small house. Her BM moved to Florida and that is the reason why she moved in with us. However, her and I do not get along. She used to watch my 2 girls when they got off the bus after school, which DH's BD is 16, and it was for maybe an hour. Her and my 7 year old at the time did not get along. My 7 year old would agitate and push DH's BD's buttons. Not once, but twice, DH's BD put her hands on my 7 year old.

Done playing games!

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Why do MIL, BM & DH keep believing bratass,snotty and crybaby SD, who will be 16, is the victim. I have recently told my MIL that I will not do anything for SD. I am so glad that she was not given a choice to come back to IL, she is now in FL with BM. I just cannot stand her or the sight of her. She blames me of course for her being in FL and messing up her whole life. DH and I have been together since she was 2. She lived with us for the last 3 years, and they were hell. I don't trust her and will not leave mine and DH's bio kids with her.