I am SM of 3 SKs, 15ss, 13sd, 11sd. We have had custody of the children since day 1. BM fought us, lied about so many things it was actually sick to watch. We had to have GAL's involved and kids had to speak with judge etc...it was really a long drawn out process of which we all new the outcome, but BM insisted on fighting it. 4 years later, we now know it was only to save face with her extended family, because the truth is, she couldn't care any less about these children.

She has had nother baby with another man, actually was pregnant before leaving. (ha, that speaks volumes about her character as a person). She has basically moved on with her life, moved 4 hours away from the kids, in the past 4 years has gotten all but 1 weekend a month in visitation taken away, currently has 3 felony count charges on her, spent a month in jail, is so far behind in child support, wont work, lies in court, lies to the children in the small amount of time that she does have them...I literally could go on and on.

And she has the nerve to call me names, belittle me, brainwash the children into hating me etc....it's sick. I'm so tired of it. We have had to block her from all of our phones because she is just impossible, speak terrible. On top of not paying support, she somehow showers the kids with expensive gifts when she does have them and then sends the crap to my house....Oh hell no! I sent it all right back.

Am I the only one going through this BM hell? I don't want to replace this woman. I have told her it would be nice if she stepped up and was their mom, but she has no intention of doing that. I really wish the children never had to see her again, because all it causes is turmoil and problems that the children don't need.