I have never hated anyone in my life, but I truly hate BM. I am so sickened by her lack of regard for her own daughter. I am also sickened by the fact that if she were any other woman than my step daughters mother, I would have beaten her to a pulp by now. And I am not violent. BM was off work today, and instead of picking up her daughter she left her with the babysitter ALL DAY and her excuse "It was DH's turn to drive out to drop her off" SHE LIVES 15 minutes AWAY!!!! She wanted DH to drop SD off to her after he got off work, and by that time BM would have been at work until 11pm. What kind of mother leaves her child with a babysitter all day when she could be spending time with her? Oh yeah! Our SHITTY BM!!!!!!!!!! Guess who registered SD for soccer today? ME!!! Guess who bought SD's school supplies and clothes?? ME!!! Guess who watched SD on her Saturday off while DH worked but BM was ALSO OFF WORK??? I am so done with this dead beat Mom. I literally can't take it anymore. If it weren't for her, we would be so happy.