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Here we go again....

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............With the yearly BS. Ok, BM left 2 years ago, moved to another state, and, in those last 2 years has seen the kids a grand total of 5 times. (once in the last year) well, SD10 has started in with her disrespect, mouth, and disrespectful attitide. (the last three weeks have been great, DH and I thought she was over it, guess we were wrong) we went through this shit last year. I am sick of SD trying to take it out on me, and DH told SD10 last night that that the attitude needed to STOP.

Stressed out!

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I'm done. SD10 is in her room, and SD6 and I are waiting on DH to get home. Not doing it anymore. SD10 for the most part has been pretty good all week, until today. DH told her last night if she got her chores done, she could go to work with him this morning. Well, DH got ready for work, and SD10 didn't have her chores done (No shock there) and DH told her "nope, you didn't do your chores, your not going" and left for work. (thanks DH :?

That didn't last long.........

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Yesterday was ok, no yelling, no screaming from SD10. Didn't last long. Tonight at supper, she decided to shove half of her food off on her sisters plate. I see her do it, and put it back on her plate. Well, SD6 finishes supper, and SD10 is almost done, (she had like 2 bites left on her plate) and she turns around and says "I don't like this" (Ok, whatever, you've eaten almost all of it anyway) so I take her plate off the table and scrape the last 2 bites off in the trash. OMFG! You'd have thought it was the end of the world!

DUHHHHHHHH

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At this point, I am CONVINCED that the ONLY thought that runs the SD10s head is "duuuhhhhh I can play stupid and I will get out of doing my chores and no longer be in trouble for not doing them last week and I LIKE being in trouble" Serisouly? This child can take the simplest task and make it into an all out production. DH told her to get dressed and it took her 30 minuets to put on a pair of shorts and a T-shirt.

Attitude

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THe last entry I deleted, SD10 has sense of entitlement, and DH told her tonight that her attitude WILL change. I will not feel like a stranger in my own home, and will NOT be berrated by this child. DH is tired of her attitude and her actions, and is tired of it. I am sick of the mouth, the attitude and her whining. DH did not see me as "attacking" her. any ideas on how to stop the snarky attitude and back talking?

NASTY

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OK, SD10 is already in trouble for not "feeling" like doing her chores, now, she is sitting, doing nothing and I hear "crunch crunch crunch" so, i ask her what shes chewing on. "My nails." UGH! This child will put ANYTHING in her mouth! beads, paper, paperclips, change and chew on it. DRIVES ME INSANE! SHe has been warned by her dentist, her dad and me to STOP doing it and she wont! She does not care that she is screwing up her teeth, let alone if she swallows the beads, money, or whatever. But the nail biting, oh HELL no.

Update to "thats what I get"

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Soooo, After last night, DH told SD that if he found ANY dirty dishes, she was gonna wash them ALL. Well, DH goes looking and finds yup, you guessed it, dirty dishes, so, he makes SD pull them all out of the cabinets and sends her to bed (IT was midnight before she got the 4 days worth of dishes done.) This morning, DH and I get up and guess what, dishes havent been touched, and SD is in her room playing.

Thats what I get for thinking

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HA! Okay, today started out decent, the SDs weren't fighting like they usually do on the weekends, we all went with DH to run a few errands, yadda yadda yadda. Well........ we get home, and lo and behold! SD10 had told us that her chores were done. I had to call Bullsh*t on THAT one. so, I asked her WHY the dishes hadn't been done in 4 (Yes 4) days. her response? " I didn't FEEL like it." REALLY? I don't really give a damn what you FEEL like doing. (I told her to get them done, at 10:20 at night mind you. More on that in a minuet).

Must. Not. Strangle. BM

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Ok, SD10 and I just had a looooonnnngggggg talk. (background, when BM was here, she was CONSTANTLY telling the oldest one, now 10 that she was fat, useless, lazy, and wanted NOTHING to do with he, favoring the youngest one, now 6. in the last 2 years, BM has seen the kids a TOTAL of 5 maybe 6 times.

OK how do you deal........

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with the STUPID phase! you can tell SD10 something SIMPLE like "do NOT be doing X" and she will 5 minuets later get in trouble for doing it, and say "I Didn't know i wasn't suposed to" Uh yeah WTF ever. I am sick of repeating myself and have gotten to the point that I tell her once, ONCE if she dont pay attention, not my problem! And, to top it off, she is doing things that her 6 yo sister KNOWS she shouldnt be doing WTF REALLY? She has also gotten to the attitude of "certian rules don't apply to ME" again WTF ever. the rules do NOT change from day to day.

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