So to follow-up from yesterday's post, I attempted to speak to dh about the "timing" regarding ss's extracurricular activity. And in true dh form he followed the standard textbook play of deflect and blame. I asked if indeed he spoke to twat waffle about this either verbally or in an email. Of course, it was verbal. (*side note* there seems to be a lot of this going on lately) I told him, I found the information on-line for the activity schedule and the information he had provided me was misleading, as the schedule did not reflect his previous statement.

So after what can only be described as the "worst" dinner ever in a public setting, I made a conscious decision to remove myself from dh. Let me give you a little background. DH essentially "checked-out" of a marriage a few weeks ago. In the meantime I have been picking up the slack, trying not to let him effect my mood (for the kids sake's) and been trudging thru the endless barrage of custody shiz from Twat Waffle.

Yes, lying by omission is indeed, still a lie. I know this, you all know this, hell even small children understand this. But my dh, he just can't grasp the gist of it. I asked for a follow-up regarding the drama stirred up by BM or twat waffle, as I am now calling her, regarding the need for ss to see a "therapist" due to "anxiety". See my previous blog on fourth of July. Evidently, the "therapist" has been trying to reach him...since last week. A fact he neglected to mention, yet again.

So last night I get a doozy of a bomb dropped on me. The phone rang at dinnertime and we didn't recognize the number so the machine picked it up. It was some family counselor who was calling to confirm an appointment time for ss an dh and I! :jawdrop: So I tell dh to stop what he's doing and call this woman back asap. Apparently bm set up the appointment because ss has been having "anxiety" issues (acting clingy, hiding, sulking) Theses are all things I have been discussing with dh for the last 9 months to which he turns a blind eye and acts like nothing is wrong.