If I don't like Bm this is why.......
1. It's because BM has pawned her kids off on me through the years - I resent her for it.....I feel burned out.
2. Then other times BM would go out of her way to keep my SD from me. Now, SD gets shoved down my throat.
3. They would never take into consideration that just maybe I may have plans or somewhere I have to be. They would volunteer w/o even asking to or babysit kids.
4. Bm complained about NOT ALLOWING SD to run up and down the street. But BM would/will allow SD to run around w/o BRA & UNDERWARE ON.
5. Up until now BM was always trying to trash any weekend plans I would try to make with DHusband on weekends w/o kids.
6. I tried to make her my friend and somewhat of a confidant with stuff that bother me. The next thing I know she would create scenarios to make me react to stuff that bothered me.
7. BM would repeat stuff I told her to SD as a ploy to turn SD against me. It would be stuff I thought any parent should know about their child's activities - sexually active.
8. I try to protect my Bdaughter from SD from sexually perpetrating on Bdaughter and omg....I have committed a sin. I try to keep the 2 kids separated as much as I can - well she doesn't like that too well!!!!!! SD should not be doing things w/kids that is sexually inappropriate anyways. I am just trying to be proactive to prevent sexual perpetration.
9. The lady can not get along with anyone to save her life. There is always some kind of choas/drama going on at their house. I refuse to allow my kids over there around the crazy bunch.
10. The Ex-witch is always trying to compete with me- go figure!!!! I have been looking for clerical work and next I know - so is she! Go be yourself and stop trying to be me. BM WILL NEVER BE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I understand completely
I would say to you, that in this case, please do not look to BM to be your friend. It is the classic set-up where she is trying basically to destroy you, and will laugh about it if she makes any progress toward that!
I would not confide ANYTHING to her, ever - instead tell your husband. You and BM are not required to be friends or even friendly. I would NEVER worry about hurting her feelings etc. although of course you don't want to be truly cruel or poke the bear when you don't have to.
She needs boundaries set as to what you will allow re. YOUR FAMILY and you will have to do that. And so does DH! Then you will be much happier I think! Hugs honey
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Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety.
William Shakespeare, "Antony and Cleopatra", Act 2 scene 2Well, I just...
I was trying to go into this with an open mind and try for the kids and hubby to be friends with her.
But, she has ruined any chance of that. Now, I can NOT stand her for all that she done to make me the bad guy when no one else can see behind the scenes.
We have already did all of this. Now it's time for me to vent. Then move on to bigger and better things.
Hey, you get full credit for trying though!
I do commend you for that and am sorry it didn't work out right. Vent away, any time, I just didn't want you to feel bad. !!
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Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety.
William Shakespeare, "Antony and Cleopatra", Act 2 scene 2Thank You!
I know you only meant well. It's just stuff that has been going on for a while now.
I would rather vent on here than in a place where she can see and get satifaction out of causing me grief and frustration.
Thank You for hanging around to listen to me! I actually feel validated!
Hey
That's what this is all about.
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Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety.
William Shakespeare, "Antony and Cleopatra", Act 2 scene 2