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Dear Ex-wife......

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Submitted by pafreema on Tue, 11/09/2010 - 6:07pm

If you only knew how stupid and desperate you look!

* There was a time when you taught your kids that physical intervention was the way to solve their problems.....yeah, smart one! There always some kind of drama going on at your house.

*VENTING LETTER*........

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Submitted by pafreema on Fri, 04/16/2010 - 6:27pm

DH,

I don't want to fight with you. I just want to shed a little light on my side of these perpetual issues.

First of all, I don't like your parenting style. It's obvious that it doesn't work. I have tried it and kids don't take talking to them very seriously. If so, two of five of your kids would not have dropped out of school and would have graduated. Since when is it that they take anything seriously, especially when you don't SHOW action? Try supporting your claim, "Actions speak louder than words."!!!!!!!! But, this is not my problem!

Okay, this....

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Submitted by pafreema on Fri, 09/25/2009 - 11:46pm

is going to drive me crazy until I blog about it and get it off of my chest.

About 2 wks ago, I had made plans with hubby to attend "education day" (going back to school to be a nurse). Then hubby is going to do his thing and go look at music toys in the same town.

Well, we get the phone call tonight from SD12 asking to come spend the weekend with us.

If I don't like Bm this is why.......

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Submitted by pafreema on Sun, 09/20/2009 - 11:22pm

1. It's because BM has pawned her kids off on me through the years - I resent her for it.....I feel burned out.

2. Then other times BM would go out of her way to keep my SD from me. Now, SD gets shoved down my throat.

3. They would never take into consideration that just maybe I may have plans or somewhere I have to be. They would volunteer w/o even asking to or babysit kids.

4. Bm complained about NOT ALLOWING SD to run up and down the street. But BM would/will allow SD to run around w/o BRA & UNDERWARE ON.

Innocent Intentions...This for anyone considering becoming a Smom

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Submitted by pafreema on Fri, 08/21/2009 - 4:29pm

When I first meant husband 2 I had true intentions of accepting the "package deal". Yes, this was the first REAL relationship I had had since after my divorce from a CHOMO (child molester). I had never experienced what it was like to live life as a blended family BEFOREHAND. OMG, I was so niave.

Do Bparents NOT teach their kids any manners these days???

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Submitted by pafreema on Thu, 08/13/2009 - 9:21am

I feel as though their NO privacy these days.

I can't have anything w/o Skids going through my things to get something they want to use of mine.

Yeah, they may ask to use my things, but I won't let them b/c I am afraid they will destroy my stuff just because they hate me. Skids are always talking about me behind my back. If they are not calling me names, they are having a pow wow w/ EX-WITCH regarding me!

I feel so tempted to put send SS16 a nasty myspace e-mail about it, but then I am stooping to his level. So, I guess I am here to vent about it.

ANYONE HAVE A BM WHO DOES EVERTHING YOU DO????

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Submitted by pafreema on Sun, 08/09/2009 - 11:11pm

DOES ANYONE HAVE A BM WHO TRIES TO DO EVERYTHING YOU DO????

FOR EXAMPLE 1, I GET A JOB IN HEALTHCARE AND NEXT THING I KNOW SHE GOES TO GET ONE.

FOR EXAMPLE 2, I GOT A MYSPACE ACCOUNT. 2 MOS LATER SHE HAS TO GET ONE.

OMG, IT GETS ON MY NERVES TO HAVE A FOLLOWER. I FEEL LIKE I CAN NOT HAVE A LIFE THAT IS MY OWN. IT'S LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS TRYING TO COMPETE WITH ME AND MY EVERY MOVE I MAKE.

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