To follow up on the crazy texts that my dh get's from sd15, I posted before how she texted about how she's been having mental breakdowns for years and he doesn't know how she cries over him. As well as she needs a break from him. And that he only visits when it's convenient for him. Like it's ever convenient to drive 2.5 hours one way to pick up a bratty kid. yeah right!!

So the newest development is dh trying to get information out of sd about whether she was coming this weekend. And she finally responded that she had something do do tonight. She was busy. He also asked about thanksgiving and my daughter's event. Both received no response.

THEN finally he get's a text this morning that say:

I just don't feel comfortable coming there to your city. My home is here. And so is all your family so I don't see why I have to come there. I don't want to come there to visit. Please just come here to see me.

The really crappy thing about this is that my dh stays with his family when he goes there to see his kid. But it's not like there is a lot of room and ppl get tired of always having other ppl around. It's getting old. They've been really nice but you don't want to push it or wear out your welcome.
I can't get over the crap that comes out of this kid.
I really got to thinking that she must be totally drunk with the power of having her dad's nuts in a box. For real. He just keeps on and on and on begging for her attention. It's pathetic. I have kids. If they don't want to be in my life, I'm not begging them.

The last I heard he had called bm. They had a nice little chit chat, such friends, and dh told me that he had conceded this weekend bc sd was busy but that they were "working on her for thanksgiving." seriously?? wft??

What a ton of bullshit. If I have to beg my kid to come to my house for a holiday, they can jump!! Also, I'm so sure she'll be happy to come here for xmas. Money, money, money!!!!