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Submitted by masonsmom on Wed, 06/22/2011 - 6:29pm

Hello..Must say I am so glad to have found this site! I have a private group of FB where a few friends and I are trying to get a support group going! We all seem to have similar issues with our SK's! I don't even know where to begin. MY husband and I have been together almost 4 years. WE have a BS who is 2 and I have know my SS since he was 2. I have dealt with my DH's crazy ex trying to break up our relationship way to many time! I hate her so much not to mention the fact that she is a selfish, lazy, crazy Mother to my SS who is 6. Her whole Family is WT and I am afraid with all of the prison POS in her family my SS will turn out like them. I do love my SS but he gets under my skin and knows exactly how to do it! My SS is here for the summer and is constantly following my BS around and wants everything he has and then whines when he doesn't get his way...Just like our 2 year old! THen my DH says I yell at my SS to much! I have no clue what to do... I feel like every time my SS comes to stay we have this argument throughout the duration of his stays. Since I have known my SS for almost 4 years I have always been a mother to him. He even calls me mom and I treat him as if he were my own... I might have less patience with him than my BS. I have no clue what else to do or how to change my husbands opinion....

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 2:50pm

Butterfly, if I hadn't found this site I would probably be married.
But the reality is always in my face "what an uphill battle being a stepmother will be like".

Welcome masonsmom, it is a great place to be! Glad to have you!

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Submitted by masonsmom on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 2:38pm

Thanks! I am super glad to be able to vent here!! Well we moved in late December we did get him every other weekend but now Summer for 7 weeks and Christmas and Spring Break. So this is a big adjustment for everyone. The BM now is saying she doesn't want him to come for Christmas and this Spring Break she wouldn't let him come visit either. So she STILL is controlling every little thing she can. Its sooo Annoying! A little back round on us we have had him with us for Months at a time. He use to live with us 3-4 months then her then us. Now that he is in School he is with her which we want custody but our Lawyer says she think right now it would be a waste of money. So we are hoping in a few years when he is older he will see the better life we can give him and move with us. The BM promises him the moon and never delivers, she has no education, job, and license. She gets help from the state and her bf supports her. She is a lazy, lazy, mother and it is sad!