:Stepdaughter is going off to college I've done the best that I could with her. She's done too much and said too much I'm tired. Her BM lives in a different country they speak a different language. But I believe the BM is free as bird because she got rid of the rotten apples. The word on the street is BM and BD my SD never got along anyway BM didn't have any issues when DH got full custody. Well now that SD is getting out of my house and off to college I feel like BM can have a more active role in her life at least call on a regular basis . As far as the next phase of SD life issue is DH offered to send her back to her home country to see her BM before heading off to college SD refused. I can't force there relationship but Ive distance myself from her she has caused numerous issues and my marriage I'm just glad she.s leaving very very soon. Aidos Bye Bye See YA later Peace Out!