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Passive Aggressive Much?

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Submitted by fedupstep on Sat, 05/30/2015 - 12:32pm

DH and SD16 are upset with me.

SD16 has new boyfriend. He is 21. And I am the only one that seems to see a problem with that. BM, SD's stepfather and DH are fine with it. She can be 'trusted' with him. Sure...this is the same girl that has been caught with the last 2 boyfriends balls deep in her unprotected. The same girl that has to be reminded to shower. The same girl that will send nude pictures of herself to anyone with a pulse.

Finding some strength

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Submitted by fedupstep on Wed, 05/20/2015 - 9:19am

First of all, thank you for your responses and PMs from my last post.

I was in a pretty dark place and couldn't see my way out of it. I have dealt with a lot of adversity in my life and because of that have always been careful to pick and choice what shit I will deal with and what I can let go. It have just been feels like there is too much to deal with right now that can't be pushed aside.

Perhaps an 'Ah-Ha/Come to Jesus' Moment for My Family :)

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Submitted by fedupstep on Sun, 04/26/2015 - 2:55pm

When I left for babysitting last night SD16 was still yapping away to DH and didn't even notice he was asleep.

I got home around 10 and while walking up my driveway I could hear a noise coming from my house. At first I thought it was the tv (DH and SD16 listen to it SOOO loud) but as I was about to unlock the door, I realized that DH and SD16 were fighting.

I walked into a shit show.

They are home from the market :)

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Submitted by fedupstep on Sat, 04/25/2015 - 11:37am

I can tell DH is still mad at me. Has barely looked at me since walking in the door. That's fine with me Smile

I could hear SD16's screechy voice from the driveway. Apparently she used her own money while there. She bought 9 apple fritters and ate them all. Now she feels sick.

BUT....

She bought DH and I matching leather necklaces with 'Peace' on mine and 'Harmony' on his. Very sweet..and very ironic.

**Update** DH is still being Mr. Pissypants

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Submitted by fedupstep on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 7:08pm

I would laugh if I it wasn't so damn pathetic...

DH is still being passive aggressive/manipulative about me not wanting to go to the stupid market with him and SD16 on Saturday morning. He is looking for things to be mad about because he knows I'm right and not backing down.

To add to my previous list of wonderfulness..

1. Said he was giving me less bill money this week so he can finance his outing with SD16. I told him fine...I will cancel cable and/or his car insurance for the month to make up the shortfall. Silence. (and he ended up giving me the full amount)

The fall out has already started...

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Submitted by fedupstep on Thu, 04/23/2015 - 8:23am

...and SD16 is not even here yet.

A couple blogs ago, I talked about DH and SD16 making plans (without talking to me) to go to a market on Saturday. I told him to have a good time. I neither have the interest, time, or money to go. I got major crap about not wanting to spend 'family time' with sd16 (well, DUH!). I told him that if it was supposed to be family time then I should have been involved in the initial conversation. I wasn't upset about it, in fact he SHOULD be spending time with her alone, but no, I'm the evil witch that doesn't want to go.

O/T Snoring Spouse

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Submitted by fedupstep on Wed, 04/22/2015 - 9:28am

I'm sure some of you have this problem.

I'm at the end of my rope with DH. He is a very heavy sleeper and snores so loud you can hear him from downstairs. I asked him to go to a sleep clinic and he told they said he was fine (I do not believe this for a second). I am a light sleeper.

My short work day is 11 hours long. My long day is 15. He is not working right now, naps a big chunk of the afternoon away and can still sleep through the night.

DH just doesn't get it...

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Submitted by fedupstep on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 9:04am

Skid weekend is coming up and SD16 has been asking DH to take her to an outdoor market. It is over an hour from our house and DH is broke beyond words. They talked about it together and he said he would take her, but would pick her up on Saturday morning instead of friday night (the market is closer to BM's house and they can go right from there).

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