I know I'm posting alot today, sorry. BM just called "me!" She wanted to know if it was ok to highlight SD12's hair (BM is a REALLY bad hairdresser). WTF? She's NEVER asked our permission for anything before. She says it's b/c "SD12 lives with you now" not "because the "girls" live with you now". I wonder if she talked SD11 to moving back in with her.

I know that's what she wants. She's mentioned it to the girls before. She told them that if one lives with her and one lives with us then no one has to pay child support. Whatever... We told the Skids that we would still have to pay her since she lies about how much money she makes. Of course they only believe BM...

She's all about bribing the kids to get what she wants and the skids are falling for it. She's the "fun" mom. She buys them things all the time and doesn't enforce the rules. SD12 knows she can't move back there for two reasons. She's under a court order here and she was expelled from school there.

DH told SD11 that if she decides to move back in with BM then she better be ready to face the conciquences. That BM will get tired of her again and then where would SD11 go? BM's father won't take them anymore, nor her aunts or uncles (yes they've lived with them all without DH knowing), and if she chose not to live here then he won't let her come back this school year. I also told her that all the things I bought her for school wouldn't be going with her either, that SD12 could use them for school or they go back to the store. I told her that I'm not supplying BM with anything. I guess we'll find out tomorrow.

The court time is 9am then we are going to my MIL's for the night. I'll post as soon as I can. It will probably be Saturday night or Sunday. I don't forsee any problems with stopping the CS. The only problem I can see is if BM talks SD11 into moving in and we have to pay CS again.