Not because I didn't want to but mostly because I havn't had access to the computer because SS is always using it at night and I go in my room and read or watch tv after my son is in bed (830). Have been doing that for weeks and starting to feel some cabin fever in my room so I bought myself an early xmas gift, a laptop! So here I am again!
Things are pretty much the same with SD13, I just ignore her and pretend she doesn't exist. Kind of hard at times but I think I've been doing really well. I saw MIL yesterday and she told me that SD told her I was 'fuckin tough' and she realised she wasn't gonna win with me like she did with the others. That she couldn't believe her father let me 'tell her off' ( I have to disagree on the telling off but if that's what she wants to call it...). It made me smile that she thinks I'm tough and that she wont win! A big smile!
As far as my relationship with my significant other, well things are better. I've told him that we need more time together and that I'm important too and that I understand he needs to spend time with his kids but he also needs to pay attention to me. He has. He's like a kid that you have to give a to do list otherwise he doesn't see the problems.
I've been going to a psychologist to help me deal with problems and it's going well and have started going to the gym again. Overall I can say things have simmer down some and a big THANK YOU to all of you who have supported me and given me advice.
I'm sure other things will pop up but for now, I'm crossing my fingers!
Hope you all have a good day!