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help!!! I am being held hostage by my wife!!!!!

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Submitted by cabbage58 on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 12:40am

I have the only 2 stepsons that the police come to your house and pickup at 7am. Over minor infractions and my wife hustles to get them out( well I certainly was'nt going to get involved). The oldest son had a warrant for assault of his stepfather (yes,me) He stabbed me with a fork to the head. Yes,I have recovered
and I am planning revenge or escape for my wife and lovely CHRISTIAN children.I have caught them selling drugs on a number of occassions and turned them in to the police.I love my wife and I think she loves me but I think she loves them more than me and herself.
the oldest, 31years old has a learning disability and just plain stupid and the younger son is a spoiled brat who does not know what NO means.He is 240lbs 6ft 1 in who learned how to use my balls as a soccerball. he has stolen from me and threaten to physically attacked but I think he is smarter than that.

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Submitted by cabbage58 on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 1:19am

My Stepson don't speak to me even though I pay the bills and take out the trash.My wife just kind of goes along with the situation. She thinks Jesus will turn this situation around and that her family will be fine.I am hoping the that they will get arrested and leave with the police because it is just a matter of time before something will happen.

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Submitted by Kes on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 2:13am

Your homelife sounds completely chaotic, a bit like my SD's home with their BM. You have my sympathy as it sounds like the older SS is not going to be able to leave home any time soon due to his learning disability. Has a residential setting or a group home of some kind where he can take part in a community life of sorts ever been discussed for him?
My friend has a son of 22 with moderate learning disability, but he manages to hold down a job with in the Royal Mail sorting office, although it is fairly lowly, it gives his life a structure.
No disrespect intended, but even if I were a Christian, I wouldn't go expecting Jesus to do the work for me. Isn't there something in the bible or somewhere about God helping those who help themselves.

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 7:24am

I'm sorry to hear about your homelife, but that's the trouble isn't it?? It isn't a home and you don't have a LIFE !!! It is time to get going, you said you are planning to leave ??? Good !!! Just get away FAST ....no one...male or female should live in such abusive situations......good luck.........

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Submitted by windee on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 7:48am

Wow! :jawdrop: I can't believe your SS stabbed you in the head with a fork! What did your wife do or say to him....and you?! I could NOT imagine having to live in a house with Skids like that! Good luck and I hope your revenge/escare works for YOU!!!! Smile

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Submitted by cabbage58 on Sat, 07/16/2011 - 1:03am

Since the last time I wrote about my lousy 31 year old SS he has been arrested on an outstanding assault warrant on me for a stabbing incident for when he stabbed me with a fork to the head and my lovely wife beg
me to drop the charges so he could get out of jail and within a week he has stolen money for myself and his younger brother amounting to well over $1,500 dollars and now they have both been banned from the house for now. I just wait for the next thing to happen because when it does I will be out of here for good. Within a week of our weddng in 2000 I had to leave because of the bad situation and several times after that. In eleven years of being married we have only lived under the same roof a total of three years. And I refuse to be driven out of my marriage by external forces but it is getting very close. I sure love this site because I feel that it is therapeutic to vent.