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Step kids are ruining my relationship

lcamaro90's picture

While i know this is not a new topic and nothing new to a lot people here, if i cant talk to someone about this i might explode! I have no kids, never been married, no baggage.  My fiance has two kids from a previous marriage (6 and 13).  At first I was excited about the prospect of being a "mom" and spending time with him and his kids but gradually over the last 5 plus years I have become extremely resentful, angry, scared, sad, overwhelmed... the list goes on and on.  I feel like a terrible person for feeling the way i do but I dont like his kids.