My step daughter is going to be 16. I have a 3 and 5 year old and over the past year my SD moved in with us and only visits her mom. Her mother decided she didn't want her full time anymore. So I felt like I was backed into a corner and had no choice. She is an absolute nightmare. She spent the weekend with her mom and I had an amazing weekend and as soon as she walks through the door and comes back I am absolutely miserable. I just wish she could go back to her mother's. I am so sick of being treated terrible and feeling like my DH never has my back.