byebyebirdie's picture

Bundle of joy for BM

Great BM decided to have another child she can't afford not looking forward to the drama of her choice of having a baby will bring to my house.... The minute she can't afford stuff for sd when we pay good support and SD comes crying to us I will blow up...If her choice to have a baby affects my finances then I am pissed. I already am scared for what will come. DH said he will not give any extra if BM can't pay for activities down the road I just hope all the tears from SD don't cloud his judgement cause I don't feel like fighting about this. If BM can't afford stuff when she has forth kid in home then SD will need to make a choice if she wants things come live with us because we can't afford to raise you in two households and we won't

byebyebirdie's picture

Thanks I am just so worried

Thanks I am just so worried how this will impact my house in a negative way. Bio trash mom can have all the babies she wants but when her choice affects my dollar then I have a say...... I am glad DH sees this my way but I am worried when tears flow.

Orange County Ca's picture

Escalate the consequences of

Escalate the consequences of Daddy paying more than court ordered support.

Unless you're in agreement if he pays bio anything at all you're outta there - or he is depending on who's house it is.


I've observed humans for 70 years and dogs for 10. I prefer the dogs.