So I posted a status on Facebook for Mother's Day and I mentioned being so thankful for my two babies (My DH and I have two together and he has a daughter from his previous marriage). My husband responds to my post saying that I am a wonderful mother to ALL of the kids. I tagged him in the Facebook post so I just think he felt the need to include his daughter I guess. This annoyed me because I don't have a desire to be a mother to his daughter, and plus he has her during the summers only. He won't even have her this summer because he will be away for work. How am I wonderful mother to her when I don't even see her that often, and I don't talk to or ask about her if she's not staying with us? I guess I just felt annoyed because in a sense I feel like my post was intruded on or something, I can't quite explain it. It just kind of bursted my bubble I guess.

I understand that normally that this would make a person feel good, but I never had a desire to be a mother to his daughter, and it has nothing to do with having two of my own. We never really had a conversation about this. I do like children and I think he saw how I acted toward his daughter and made the assumption that I wanted to be "Mom". I was just simply being kind to her, like I pretty much would treat anyone that came into my life.