I think I need an eye dr appointment and I shrink
On my way to pick my 3.5 year old niece up from school, I passed my house to see a young man walk inside. When my DS got home from school I asked him if there was a guy in the house, he didn't know. Then my DD got home and I asked her, she didn't know. I told her to go in her room and lock her door when her brother leaves. I call DH to tell him I'm not comfortable with my 12 year old daughter home alone with some strange man SD has in her room and I want him gone. I am 30 minutes away with my niece and there was nothing I could do. DH says he's not a rapist, I said I don't want him there who knows what he is. So DH calls SD and she of course tells him nobody was there. I said I saw him, so DH says maybe you thought you saw him, why would she lie to me? Umm, I can think of a million reasons. I'm pretty pissed DH thinks I'm a liar but not his pretty princess. I came home and threw the garbage can in the middle of the snow for him to get tonight. F him!
Don't you love it when your
Don't you love it when your husband takes his kid's word over yours? I can think of many times where I told my husband something that contradicted what SD had told him and he asked me, "Well, why would SD lie?"
Did you ever find out for sure who was at your house and how long he was there?
Next time call the police and
Next time call the police and have them go evict the intruder.
Yup- I wanted to bitch about
Yup- I wanted to bitch about my lying SD that's what this forum is all about. Duh!
My daughter stayed late in
My daughter stayed late in school and I was picking up my niece from school and then taking her to the dr. It's a whole production to go inside since I have my 3 year old and my 3 month old nieces, I am their nanny on a daily basis. Everything in my day is planned accordingly. My son was home but I told my daughter to look her door just in case since he was leaving.
I would've parked, got all
I would've parked, got all the kids out of the car and went inside to see who the hell was in my house. If you were truly worried about your daughter in her bedroom, you would've stopped and walked in the damn house.
Yup fruit. Yup.
Yup fruit. Yup.
Such a joke. Kids dead but
Such a joke. Kids dead but I'll show my SO and step kid. :sick:
Wait, am I in the posse? I've
Wait, am I in the posse? I've never been a part of a posse before! How many do you need to make a posse? Is there an entrance fee or process to joining?
well i've got guns, do i need
well i've got guns, do i need a horse now too? what about some sturdy rope for a hangin' like back out in the old west?
I still say call the cops.
I still say call the cops. IF there was a murderer in the house there's no way a woman with a toddler and a baby could stop any wrong doing.
Taking two small children into a potentially dangerous situation would be STUPID!!!!!
It obvious that the stepmom
It obvious that the stepmom KNEW it was not a dangerous situation. Passive aggressive sh*tt big time going on.
You need to have a discussion
You need to have a discussion with DH and get him on board that no visitors are allowed in the home unless either of you are home. Period. And enforce it.
Lol. Nail it.
Lol. Nail it.
Wow! Obviously some of you
Wow! Obviously some of you read between the lines. Apparently I'm a bad mom bc I was with my nieces and didn't rush into my house. Not that I need to defend myself but alrighty then, so my daughter wasn't home at the time that I saw the guy walk into my house, my son was home however, he's gonna be 18 next month. I guess it's okay that my son was home at the time with SD and her BF. Heck, if the guy was going to murder someone, why wouldn't he start with my SD and my son?? Then my DD came home 2 hours later, her brother was still there. I told her when her brother leaves to lock her door. By the time my son left however I had already spoken to DH. I guess for now on instead of paraphrasing, I'll just start from the exact minute of my problem.
I love the moms who judge though, you're all my favorites. Do you really think your sh*t doesn't stink? I'm almost positive if I cared, I could go back into the forum and find something to judge you on, but I don't care so you go on being all judgy, good luck with your bad self.
Give me a break. You KNEW no
Give me a break. You KNEW no one was in danger. AND if you thought your kids were in danger, then you, as the mom, handled it POORLY.
Darwin awards are calling you, better check your messages.
OH and by the way, the word
OH and by the way, the word rapist never entered my head, that was by husbands word, he also said he k ew the kid he thought it was. I didn't think my kids were in danger, that never crossed my mind. I just don't like people I do not know in my house when I am not home. I don't care if it's male or female.
That's nice for you. I may
That's nice for you. I may not like the guy being there but I'm not going to waste an officers time to escort some stupid kid out of my house.
Then don't play games.
Then don't play games. Confront your husband. Be honest. But don't play victim games.
And pick up the garbage
And pick up the garbage yourself. Stop playing victim. And stop playing passive aggressive games as well.
Life is short. Be the change you want to see in the world. Seriously. Be the change.
Why do you freaking care what
Why do you freaking care what I did with the garbage? If you don't like what I have to say I have. Little piece of advice for you,
SCROLL ON. how I react toward the way my husband talks to me has nothing to do with you. I came into a forum to vent, maybe you're on the site, holier than thou is in the Jesus freak room.
Wow! Im sorry, I thought I
Wow! Im sorry, I thought I was posting on a forum about adult step kids, am I in the wrong room? My bad!
Might want to cut down on
Might want to cut down on whatever your having. Your story is the same no matter where you post.
Whatever that means. Maybe
Whatever that means. Maybe you're quote fits you to a t. You think you're. Queen and the truth is you're just like everyone else. The only difference is you're a bully just like a few others in here. Good luck with that.
Me, a bully. Nope. And yes,
Me, a bully. Nope.
And yes, my quote does fit me to a t. There is what I thought step life would be and then there is what it really is.
I do not, however, play games with my epic man. Games in bed....you bet.....but games in life....oh hell no. I love him and myself too much to waste our time doing that.
You...playing games?!?!!....Good luck with that.
Because I don't need her
Because I don't need her listening to SD and her BF having noisy sex and walking around naked, especially since SD room is right next to the bathroom.
Are you in my house? Do you
Are you in my house? Do you know what my life entails? Other than the things I've posted the last 2 nights, nope. So you have no idea who I am, where I live, what I do, what goes on between my husband and myself or anything else. All you know is what I write, how do you even know what I'm saying is the truth? It's the Internet for goodness sake. You can think whatever you want about me, I dont know you, I dont care to know you. Have a nice life and take your judgmental attitude with you. Anyone who thinks they can get married and have a blended family without any bumps is living in a fantasy world, I however live in reality.
Gee I'm so glad I woke up to
Gee I'm so glad I woke up to a bunch of catty no it all nasty woman this morning. I forgot why I hadn't been on this page in 5 years. Some of you woman are so vicious, if that's the way you are online to a complete stranger, I can only imagine how you are in real life. If no wonder the majority of you hate your step kids and your husbands. You want to kick them out of your house, is that your internet tough muscles showing or are you that nasty in real life?
Guess what ladies, nobody raped or murdered my kids, I'm sure you all would've loved that. If my husband decided to beat me up last night when he came home from work because I called his daughter a liar, are you all going to finish me off and beat me up with your words?
I thought this was supposed to be a forum where one step parent helps another out, not beats them down? Ya I guess not. Thanks for all the kind words on how my 12 year old daughter is going to get pregnant, on how I should've busted down my door, called the cops, gotten a gun and forced my SD and her BF out of my house oh and my very favorite, I'm a bad mom. Yup, it's been a pleasure.
This has been so comical to me, thanks for all your kind words. You all go have yourselves a nice day, I'm done.
Ya I don't have a mentality
Ya I don't have a mentality where everyone in the world is bad, my kids are not on drugs so that would never cross my mind either but since it crossed yours, maybe you should look to see what going on in your glass house.
Jeeze Louise people what the
Jeeze Louise people what the hell is going on in your lives that you have to put people down to lift yourselves up? It costs nothing to be nice not a damn cent. I will no longer be posting on here.