I want to slap this kid...
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My Stepson is 10 years old and annoys me to no end. We have him for the summer but I absolutely love it when he's gone. He is so mouthy and opinionated and nosy. He asks way too many questions and always wants to know everything about everything. I hate it m he is getting on my nerves to the point of me Enron looking away him makes me sick. He is so rude and greedy and self centered. He is mean to my bio son (2) but that's his bio sister (also my step daughter 4) so nicely. I just want him to disappear forever. I bite my tongue and try so hard to change my feelings but I can't. I hate him.
Speaking from experience...be
Speaking from experience...be very careful what you say/vent on this site...
But in regards to your post...I completely understand how you feel. Pretty much everything you said above describes my dh's S11. I admit that I would like him to never come around but I don't stop or prohibit my dh and him from having their visits. I know that my dh has to do what he has to do. So I just deal with it as best I can. Thankfully my dh doesn't force skid on me or expect anything of/from me in regards to his kid so that is what makes it better.
What does your dh do to help make this situation better or help with your feelings? The one thing that makes my situation better or more worth it in my opinion is that my dh doesnt put up with any shit from his kid or bm. He puts us and our marriage first and we have a united front with both of our kids. We are on the same page and when you have that...it makes ALL the difference when dealing with skids/bm. IMHO.
Just curious & asking
Just curious & asking seriously...so if I had said "I FEEL like doing xyz" as opposed to "I WANT to do xyz" "Is that too much or unfair?" I would not have rec'd the backlash I rec'd?
Keep in mind I have not done any of the things I mentioned in my post, that was just something I had in mind to do, I am just trying to deal with a situation that makes me uncomfortable. And I personally feel that alot of people over-exaggerated what I was saying and meaning and went overboard with what I said. All I want to do SA, is to feel comfortable and in some kind of control of my own space and things. kwim? Yes, I don't like skid. No, I don't want him around, BUT I know that my dh has to see and spend time with his son and I am just trying to make the best of it all. I am not saying that my way or ideas are the best way to handle things, but that was just how I was trying to cope with it all and still have my dh and his son see each other in our home.
My DH just takes it until he
My DH just takes it until he runs out of patience. Luckily he hasn't been very patient but what can I do, tell him to get his son or of my personal life? If I'm on my phone he's over my shoulder, he constantly touching me and looks for affection that I do NOT want to give him, and I just hate all his mannerisms ie how he chews ice all the time, little things like that. He is the most annoying person on the planet to me and I can't say a word about it I have to pretend that I accept him when all I want him to do is just grow the fu ck up and leave.
I feel the same way! Just the
I feel the same way! Just the mere mention of his name puts me in a mood. Skid is only 11 and apparently has no remorse (according to texts we rec'd from bm who stated that he doesn't see what he did was wrong etc) for calling a kid that "came out" in his school a "fag" and laughing when another kid made sexual gestures to a new little girl in his school. And people here wonder why I don't like the kid or want to be around him?! He's a fucking sociopath in the making!
But evenmoreso I SOO can't wait for skid to grow up and the 920.00 a month money train for bm/skid ends!