How to deal with a jealous step son?
this is my first time here, so please excuse any protocol omissions...
I have been together with my boyfriend for 9 months now. I am 4 months pregnant. I have a daughter from a previous relationship who is almost 5. His son from a previous marraige (12 years old) just came to live with us a month ago from another country. The son is extremely jealous of me and the baby and doesn't like my daughter either. He sleeps in one bed with his dad and refuses to let his Dad come near me, much less show any affectionate behaviour towards me.
I know this is a very difficult situation for my stepson since he doesn't really know his Dad, doesn't know the language, has no friends, no stability in his life. I have tried to talk to him many times and we seem to be getting along well now, but I hate the sleeping arrangements and the feeling of "having an affair with my boyfriend".
How can I deal with this situation? Thanks a lot!