Im trying to deceide which is better for me to get some help to get myself together.I know there are Psychologist's,marriage counslers,etc.Is a female better or a male? Wish I could get DR.Phil and let him tare loose on my DH brat's. I think I want to go by myself but trying to know which is the right one to see for me alone at first. Any good advice on which one to go with?