Does anyone else feel like they lose control whenever SK comes over?? I literally feel like the whole atmosphere of my house changes including my husband and I dont know what to do. I am at such a point right now. My SD has been with us the past month due to her mother being in the hospital. It has been hard on everyone and we have no idea when she will be out. I know I might sound selfish, but im tired. My DH works mostly all day, so its just SD, my 1 year old twins, and me all day. So all the responsibilities fall on me for everyone and with BM being sick, all the other stuff SD has to do falls on me too. I am a teacher and just feel I have been robbed of my whole summer and dont see a break coming anytime soon. I have such different thoughts on rules and consequences that SD, which is 12 should be doing all day. It mostly just games, phone, and and eating. When I try to give chores or implement consequences, ots really not enforced by DH which makes SD just not pay attention to doing it. I know its a difficult time right now, but this is too much at once for me. I need structure in my house. I just dont know anymore. My mind is so ready to just check out.