SD15 has been coming over on her schedule the last couple months, which has been a nice change after drama around how she wanted to be able to call her own schedule from day to day.  Overall things have been better, her attitude has improved a lot and I have worked on being less uptight about things.  This is her weekend with us and a few days ago my husband asked what I thought if she asked to have someone sleep over.  I said that would be fine, but just one night, I didn't want someone over both nights.  He easily agreed and yesterday she asked to have someone stay tomorrow (Saturday) night. Cool. Tonight she had plans with her boyfriend to go to his house, he picked her up at 730.  I was out at the time, and at 736 DH texted that their plans changed and they would be coming back to our house.  Normally this is something that I know I would need to work on being flexible about, but I am so frustrated because DH and I had the conversation about not having people over both nights. It takes me back to when I felt like he disregarded me in order to please her.  I had been so looking forward to coming home and having a quiet evening lounging and watching TV, it has been a long week and I wanted to unwind.  Now we have a guest in the space I would do that, and another one coming tomorrow.  Ugghhhh