The 10ss has become very picky about eating and we have taken him to the doctors to get it checked and they all say it is him. He will hold food in his mouth until he pukes. He has started to lose weight because of this. He did this last saturday because we would not take him to mcdonalds to eat. so his dad spanked his butt with an open hand(nv cps told us that you may spank a child with an open hand as long as you do not leave a bruise) There was no bruise but she did a ro because of that. She says that he needs anger management. I am and so is he already signed up for an online course and when it comes to it she will have to prove that he doesn't care. She just doesnt want the kids here. I will closely be watching their grades. They will slip and then she will have to explain that. I am a volunteer at their school and was told that I could not pass messages back and forth so what am I suppose to tell them when they say tell dad that i love him? That i can't because your mother what am i to say.