Huh. My ex has many of these traits. Very self absorbed. Everything was always about him and his life. Everything revolves around him and his kids and ex. I literally revolved around his world. Gosh. I'm so relieved and at peace now. Leaving him was the best decision I've ever made;)). I feel like a zillion pound weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Even though these types have very bad traits it's very very hard to tell at the beginning because they can be charming and they seem to know what you want to hear. But you have to watch people's actions NOT what they are telling you. Words fall short but actions will paint a picture of who people are.

It's like this article was written about BM. Every last word.