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sick of the abuse

kenziesmama85's picture

My fiance seems to not care that his unborn daughter is being put in a abusive situation by his 12 year old son who is consistently getting worse by the day. He sides with his son. I keep stating I will leave and get threatened. I cant take this and I dont know what to do. I want respect but seems like its to much to ask for from these kids.

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WTF...REALLY's picture

Oh for fuck sake.

A unborn baby is not in an abusive relationship with a 12 year old boy living outside your womb. Only abuse comes from the mother not caring for herself or being attacked to her stomach by someone else.

Are you being beaten by the 12 year old? My guess is NO.

Get sane and do better. For your unborn childs sake.

StepLady's picture

Who is abusing your fetus? And how? If SS is stressing you out, that is part of life to be honest you will have to learn coping skills or remove yourself from the situation. We can not control others, only how we deal with it. If you are that stressed that you feel your baby is in danger in uetero, you should seek out help to get away from SS and DH. If you choose to stay and deal with crap treatment from a kid, then you are a willing participant. If you are being physically assaulted that is another matter all together, walk into your nearest ER and report that, they will deal with your health and call authorities.

MissElphaba's picture

So do I refer my pissed off IT guy to you? I just spit coffee on my keyboard laughing. }:)