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WWSMD's picture

We were invited to a rehearsal dinner for DH's cousin and unbeknownst to me so was BM and she let the kids miss school to attend also. We were asked to line up for pictures before dinner. BM kept trying to wave DH over to her to take pictures with her and the kids. DH went to take pictures with just the kids. The bride even told the photographer she wanted a picture with DH and the kids and one with DH and me. BM kept trying to get a picture with DH, herself and the kids. DH took his two pictures without BM and walked away. BM kept trying to trail behind DH asking him why he is acting like that. DH tried to get it through her delusional head that they are no longer a family. BM protested that he has two families now.

When we went to be seated BM tried to get the people at our table to switch tables with her and the kids. DH told them its fine and he told BM to go back to her table. she called him names and told the kids that she is sorry there dad doesn't want to sit by them and she only thought he wanted to sit by his kids. When the music came on BM rushed over to our table to ask DH if he remembered that song and to get up and dance. DH just kept talking to me and the people at our table while BM buzzed around talking to herself.

Needless to say we quietly slipped out of there before dessert was served.

Comments

Bojangles's picture

Congratulations on having a husband who does not awkwardly placate his ex for an easy life.

Anne Boleyn's picture

Exactly. If it were me, we'd be sitting at the same table so he could "sit next to his kids".

Anne Boleyn's picture

I know. I want to vomit right now and my blood pressure is sky high. This woman is stronger than me.