I watched a couple videos. Excellent.

Thank you for posting this for CLove and anyone else that needs to gear these words. Reading a lot of the posts you can tell posters are dealing with narcissists - if you have escaped one (or more).

That's really Toxic Babysitting."

Spot on.

Thanks for the video.

I am starting to wonder if this dude has traits of narcissism or something. His inability to empathize with me, frequent arguements (for narcissistic supply), very self-centered (complains if EVERYTHING I do isn't directly benefiting only him), minimizes his negative behaviors and rarely takes accountability,projecting his negative behaviors onto me so he doesn't have to make any corrections, and gaslights me when I bring up his negative patterns of behavior.

Why tf do I keep attracting narcissistic men? And there are so many variations/degrees of narcissism it's not so easy to tell sometimes until you're already 'locked in' with them 

*video by same woman who explains how narcissists go to any lengths to 'win' arguments https://youtu.be/HuNFzmq0FmI

• minimizing your valid experiences
• gaslighting - manipulating someones reality with lying, contradiction, denial, etc.
• constantly being blamed for THEIR issues/casting blame to maintain their grandiose behavior/blame projection/not taking responsibility then blaming someone else
• etc