A scary sight!!
Ok...I admit...I was trolling on my DD and SD's (both 14) Facebook page. I want so badly to correct some of the things I see on these pages..the kids talking like trash and most of them sounding so uneducated, it's ridiculous!! What is the deal with spelling these days (ex: girl=gurhl; me=meh; cool=cuhl and much more)? I know it has to do with texting, but it's getting crazy!
What is really bothering me is the fact that some of SD's pictures look like she's applying for a porn job! She has (what my nephew informed me is called) the "MySpace Face"...that pouty, lip puckered face that the girls are crazy about doing, perfect hair, and tons of makeup and scanty clothes, in all kinds of weird poses. Please...don't get me wrong--even though SD is overweight...she is GORGEOUS (I've thought about getting her into plus sized modeling)! She has what we call "Angelina Jolie Lips", beautiful skin (even for a 14 year old girl), long, beautiful hair and she is almost expert about doing her makeup really well. But, she is also very comfortable with her sexuality and from the time I met her at 3 years old...she has always acted older than her years. Now...she could easily pass for early 20's and she knows it(she is 5'6, over 200 lbs, and very developed). She takes these very sexy pictures with her cell phone and posts them on her FB page...it's horribly scary to me. She doesn't know that I am looking at her FB page. I go on to her page through my DD's page as they are "friends", and I have access to my DD's page, so I do check in on SD's page from time to time.
I just see some bad things coming from this...DH and I have been telling her how some men think that because she looks a certain way, they will take it as an invitation to do bad things to her...for years, we have been telling her this for years. She has been acting this way for a long time now...and it's like talking to a wall. AM (skids are adopted, so I call the bitch "AM" for adoptive mom) is a complete whore (and I really HATE that word), and shares her slut clothes with SD, so I know where it comes from and I know that no matter what DH and I say to SD, it's useless, because AM makes it look cool and fun!